I'm 20. She's 22. She has a 4 year old, and a 7 month old. According to her, she's been separated from her husband for quite a while, and is just waiting for the divorce to finalize. We have so many things in common. And I think she's gorgeous. Just trying to get other peoples' opinions so I can guess how my family will react when I introduce her. Thanks.
Anonymous2010-07-27T19:05:03Z
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i see no problem with it, if anything i think it's great a lad at 20 years old would consider being with a woman with 2 kids, it doesn't happen all that often.
remember your not just with this girl, she has 2 kids, so make sure you get along with her kids as well.
your family may be shocked, but they should support you and be happy for you.
I wouldn't say it is weird, but it is a lot different than dating someone who has not been married or have children. If things were to work out between you, you would essentially be a parent to her children, while at the same time their father would also be involved. This can often get complicated. There is a lot of responsibility and commitment.
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YOUR FAMILYS PROBABLY NOT GONNA LIKE IT AND EITHER WILL YOU WHEN THE KIDS ARE OLDER AND YOU HAVE TO BE DADDY TO THEM BUT THATS YOUR DECISION. DONT DATE HER CAUSE YOU THINK SHES PRETTY.. SHE HAS 2 KIDS AND YOUR GONNA PROVIDE FOR THEM WEATHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT IF YOU STAY WITH THEM..AND WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN COMMON SHE CANT DO MUCH BECAUSE SHES GOTTA WORK AND TAKE CARE OF KIDS THE REST OF THE TIME..DADDY!!!!