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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 years ago

I'm 18 years old, is it weird if I date a 29 year old with two kids?

I'm 18, and am very mature for my age. I respect women very much, I could never find anyone my age that I really connected with or even liked. Anyone I've ever liked has always been older then me. I know how this girl feels about me, and I know how I feel about her, the only problem is that I don't know how my family, or her family would feel.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    You are only 18 and the responsibility of kids can be a lot.

    In the end you are legally an adult now and are free to make your own choices. If you're happy with this person and if it's a healthy relationship between the two of you then the age difference really doesn't matter all that much. Some people will look down on you for it or turn their nose up, but it's not up to them :)

  • 4 years ago

    nicely i think of it may well be greater effective to be with the 18 300 and sixty 5 days old reason you do not understand what is going on interior the strategies of the 29 300 and sixty 5 days old. you do not understand if the 29 300 and sixty 5 days old plans on having intercourse with you and gets you pregnant or basically needs to apply you reason your youthful and the make you unfastened your virginity after which you are going to sense grimy. in case you think of you will desire to be with the 29 300 and sixty 5 days old then bypass forward however the suited one for you would be the 18 300 and sixty 5 days old because of the fact it incredibly is not lots of and age distinction and while a guy is lots older than you the often think of roughly having intercourse greater desirable than basically having a relationship that has to do with basically going out, kissing, hugging, and speaking with one yet another. yet i've got not met none of them so i don't understand. You dad will in all probability get pissed and throw you out of your place or he might get him arrested reason even although your 17 you're nonetheless seen a minor till your 18.

  • 9 years ago

    If you want some sort of group-society type approval, you aren't going to get it. Even if you don't date her, the hivemind won't approve of you. It never does. It's a silly, pointless route to concern yourself with what others think.

    Your family should be obligated to support your decisions, and be guides, not tyrants who interfere with your life. Unfortunate it always seems to be the other way around; but I understand, letting go would take a great deal of emotional maturity.

    Do what you believe is best. And only you.

    - Oh, and I'll remark, I can guarantee you most people here have never been in this situation and will be quoting a soap opera or some such rubbish.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Its weird. But age is just a number. You never know maybe shes the one

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    She's not going to take you seriously. You are not what she wants in a step father for her kids. Realistically you aren't prepared for the responsibility, it doesn't matter how mature you think you are. Once she's had her fun, she will move on.

  • 9 years ago

    If you love her so much you wouldn't care as much of other peoples opinions

  • 9 years ago

    age difference too big

  • 9 years ago

    please do not pursue him think about how his kids will feel and all the confusion they'll have

    don't be selfish

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