My mom has not bought me 1 thing since four months ago which was school shopping. During school shopping she only bought me a shirt. Every time I try talking to her she annoys me or tells be to shut the hell up!!??? I absolutely hate her!!!! Today i asked her to buy me something on sale for only 50 dollars and she told me to stfu!!!??? i hate her!!!! O yea and she hates me!!!
my mom is not on drugs,my dad is not around, and she has a job. she is an lpn
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Your Mom does not hate you.Do you realize we are in an economic slump?Maybe,she just does not have the money and is having a hard time financially.It's frustrating not to be able to provide the things you want for your family.When people are under a lot of stress they can lash out and be highly irritable.Especially, when they have an ungrateful child hounding them for something that only cost 50 dollars (sarcasm)that she probably does not even need.
Robin
Sounds like a nasty relationship...for both of you.
Sorry, but you do make yourself sound like all you want is money and stuff...which isn't very nice.
Your mum sounds inappropriate for sure, something has definitely gone wrong, and she seems to have given up even trying to be nice.
So...if you want things to change (you haven't said so) the solution is neither simple or pain free...As it is impossible to change another person...you have to make the changes yourself, and hope that changes the dynamic between you. For example you start speaking very politely, not raising your voice at all, and when you ask a question...you smile and wait for an answer (even if it still hasn't come 5 minutes later)...just keep on smiling and waiting. OK nothing changes overnight but..it is hard to resist someone being obviously nice to you.
Assuming you don't want things to change and you were not really asking a question, just having a rant...I guess it is only a matter of time before you leave home and have to buy your own things anyway...Oh yeah, and have to get a job too...life sucks sometimes.
Courtney
Well, your mom has no right to say any of that. Try to talk to her about it. Don't scream at each other though because that will only make things worse. Your mom does not hate you and you do not hate her. You guys just don't have a good relationship. If talking doesn't work...something serious has to be done. A mother should not ever be like that to her daughter. If she does anything worse (like hit you or anything) I would call the cops. The last thing you would need is an abusive mother. I'm sorry to hear this, sweetie.
Good luck...
Paul
I pray this is a joke. It's hard for a mother to hate their off-spring... not like them? Maybe. Hate? Highly doubtful.
Just because every waking moment is not spent trying to make you feel like a special snow-flake, does not mean she hates you. If she says: I wish I never had you. Or I never want to see you again... even then, all that can be caused by rage. It just sounds like you're spoiled.
My mother annoys me. She's an untrustworthy harlot and she has been trying to use me to get what she wants... Do I hate her? No. I love her, but I still don't like her.
Peace
On sale for 50 dollars?