My mom hates me!!!!!?

Your Mom does not hate you.Do you realize we are in an economic slump?Maybe,she just does not have the money and is having a hard time financially.It's frustrating not to be able to provide the things you want for your family.When people are under a lot of stress they can lash out and be highly irritable.Especially, when they have an ungrateful child hounding them for something that only cost 50 dollars (sarcasm)that she probably does not even need.

Sounds like a nasty relationship...for both of you.

Sorry, but you do make yourself sound like all you want is money and stuff...which isn't very nice.

Your mum sounds inappropriate for sure, something has definitely gone wrong, and she seems to have given up even trying to be nice.

So...if you want things to change (you haven't said so) the solution is neither simple or pain free...As it is impossible to change another person...you have to make the changes yourself, and hope that changes the dynamic between you. For example you start speaking very politely, not raising your voice at all, and when you ask a question...you smile and wait for an answer (even if it still hasn't come 5 minutes later)...just keep on smiling and waiting. OK nothing changes overnight but..it is hard to resist someone being obviously nice to you.

Assuming you don't want things to change and you were not really asking a question, just having a rant...I guess it is only a matter of time before you leave home and have to buy your own things anyway...Oh yeah, and have to get a job too...life sucks sometimes.

Well, your mom has no right to say any of that. Try to talk to her about it. Don't scream at each other though because that will only make things worse. Your mom does not hate you and you do not hate her. You guys just don't have a good relationship. If talking doesn't work...something serious has to be done. A mother should not ever be like that to her daughter. If she does anything worse (like hit you or anything) I would call the cops. The last thing you would need is an abusive mother. I'm sorry to hear this, sweetie.

Good luck...

I pray this is a joke. It's hard for a mother to hate their off-spring... not like them? Maybe. Hate? Highly doubtful.

Just because every waking moment is not spent trying to make you feel like a special snow-flake, does not mean she hates you. If she says: I wish I never had you. Or I never want to see you again... even then, all that can be caused by rage. It just sounds like you're spoiled.

My mother annoys me. She's an untrustworthy harlot and she has been trying to use me to get what she wants... Do I hate her? No. I love her, but I still don't like her.

On sale for 50 dollars?

First of all, calm down....breath. It is a strong possibility that your mother is suffering from debt and she cannot afford to get you anything right now. NEVER judge your mother's love by what she buys you from the store. You have a roof over your head right, and food to eat? Even mother's that can't give their kids those simple things still love and want for their kids to have everything. As for her telling you to Shut up...Its not right but she was just angry. She isn't perfect so stop being so hard on her. I think you owe her an apology

There can be many reasons why shes like that. Maybe she acting like that because of stress. Try talking to her slowly to find out what the problem is, but when you are talking to her control yourself and don't get mad because it could become worse.

How old are you?Your mom may be going thru a rough time with her finances.Is your dad around?Is your mom on drugs?If you are old enough to get a job then I suggest you get one.

Talk to her gently and ask her why she treats u like this..there must be a reason, am sure she loves u;)

Go and see a counsellor