In the TRUE sense of the definition - "the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object." Do girls ever have a need for something non sexual to get them aroused like some guys do?
Someone asked what an example would be. For me, it's a girls legs in nylon stockings. To me it's super erotic and a great fetish to have.
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Yes. It exists. Its just far less common because women dont talk about crap like that as much as guys do... my husband has this pair of jeans that he has had since we were 16. He wore them the first time we met. And the first time we kissed. And the first time we had sex... i guess they became his "lucky" jeans so now (we're 25) whenever he wears them or im doing laundry and see them, i get suuuper horny. Idk why. But yeah. Lol
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First, I do not believe that your definition of a sexual fetish is anywhere near correct. That being said, I would venture to guess that perhaps more women have fetishes than men. See, women start their sexual arousal in their minds, not in their pants. So, imagine what can go on in their minds to get aroused or once they are aroused. Rape scenes, bondage, blackmail... it's all in there.
Edit: always getting outdone by hepmom, sometimes I just want to slap that b*tch
Edit #2: hepmom, of course not, that only applies to the riding crop, you know that.
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You are missing a few things in your "TRUE" definition of a fetish.
1c) "an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression " - http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetish
An actual fetish would be a rather frustrating thing to be afflicted with. It is the "psychologically necessary for sexual gratification" part that has always bothered me.
EDIT: To restore my contact's faith in me, I will add.....
Fetish or no, there is no shortage of animate, inanimate, battery operated, robotic, living or wind powered objects which have the ability to arouse me. Hell, the right breeze will do it.
EDIT #2: New Date, do I get to choose where?
Amby
This is interesting to me becuase i cant think of anything that would do that for me. What is something non sexual that would arouse a guy?
LilChik
Ive actually never had a sexual fantasy. Like I can dream about doing it, but thats not a fantasy.. . Im not sure. If they do then, count me out lol