A guy likes me and I like him, but he has a girlfriend, and I dont really want to date him.?

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I've liked him for a while, but i will never date him, and he likes me but loves his girlfriend but keeps trying to get with me. i dont want to date him because of standards and the fact that he wants me while he has her but is still with her, and what makes me think he wont do the same to me if he dates me? when we hang out its like a whole new side of him that i see. he's sweet, funny, and says he loves me. he always asks me perverted things and i always reject him. he doesnt meet my standards but i cant help who i like. i dont know why i just have problems dating people. i think i over think it. but i dont want to be the other girl. i think thats just as bad as cheating. i cant get my mind off of him and he makes me mad all the time. some days he texts me alot and other days he wont talk to me at all. lately he hasnt talked to me much at all but when i happen to see him in person, he acts like nothing ever happened and acts excited to see me. maybe he's finally realizing i wont do anything with him or what? i am so confused and i still cant get my mind off of him. he's a jerk but i still like him. what do i do?

BajunaJewelry · Accepted Answer

He is with someone!  Get away!  You wouldn't want someone messing with your boyfriend would you?  Break it off now.  You are just stroking his ego anyways.  He's probably bragging to his self that he has two girls chasing him.  You shouldn't even be hanging out with him because it is clear that you want him.  Don't text him at all.  If you see him in person just be cordial.  
If you want a boyfriend give up on that one he may cheat on you someday.  He isn't very faithful with the girlfriend he's got.  
Word of advice.  Because you like this guy so much, you won't notice if there is another guy out there who does like you who is available.  I have a friend like this who used to waste all her time like this.  She used to always get a crush on a guy with a girlfriend or wife.  Now she is still single in her 40's.  You don't want everyone to see that you get involved with guys that are attached, either.

marc dello · Answer

I know the feeling and he probably just wants sex, fun sex with a girl he likes. Unless you reject him he will always play the game and act flirty, he sounds like he has a bit of an ego problem and wants affection and lust from you. I would try to keep my distance and act cool at the same time athough it's a tough thing to do.

s.boucher30 · Answer

well, having experience with this, they just wanna have sex. they just want to explore things with you sexually and have you as a friends with benefits type girl. someone they can give a booty call to when they are horny and have no one else to ****. its true. it's fun though, and sometimes it can turn into more...but he seems like a jerk off

Anonymous · Answer

stay away from him ... he sounds like a bad guy already

Anonymous · Answer

if u like him flirt back

A guy likes me and I like him, but he has a girlfriend, and I dont really want to date him.?

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