A girl told me she don't wanna hang with me after 2nd date. She told me not to contact her anymore....?

She text me "Don't take it personal .. Please don't call me". I left her alone after two weeks, she text me saying she thought about me and decided to know how any doing and wants us to go out to for some drink. Am am kinda skeptical and confused....for GUYS what will you do and LADIES what's do you think. Genuine answers please. I kinda like this girl tho...

?2012-11-25T00:18:58Z

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Don't get your hopes up, but meet with her.

Her text was a little harsh. Maybe she's socially awkward, and you can accept that. Maybe she started dating someone else and didn't want you calling while she was out with him.

When you meet her, it won't be to get together with her. It will be to learn.

?2012-11-25T08:20:39Z

Ask her why she dumped you to begin with.What vibes that you gave off that made her react like that?
It's nice that she's willing to give you a second chance, but this sounds almost like a head game here.The last thing you want is someone who thrives on drama. Go with your gut instinct here, but don't ignore the red flags if there are any. Good luck.

Kristina2012-11-25T08:42:14Z

Sounds fishy. Maybe she is keeping you on the back burner, as a last resort.

I know people like this. They have a series of people they 'date'. They get a bit serious with one, then something happens and they fall back on one of the other guys for support.

In all reality it is up to you to meet her for drinks. But just be careful.

TedShark2012-11-25T08:24:38Z

Go for it, but don't get your hopes up, she did it once, she will do it again, I like her why not.
Some things I regret in life are the ones I didn't take a chance, there's no going back now.

antwan9182012-11-25T08:20:31Z

As a guy I would suggest you walk away from this. Any girl who does this or is trying to play games shouldn't be around. Trust me real women aren't like this!

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