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A girl told me she don't wanna hang with me after 2nd date. She told me not to contact her anymore....?

She text me "Don't take it personal .. Please don't call me". I left her alone after two weeks, she text me saying she thought about me and decided to know how any doing and wants us to go out to for some drink. Am am kinda skeptical and confused....for GUYS what will you do and LADIES what's do you think. Genuine answers please. I kinda like this girl tho...

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    Don't get your hopes up, but meet with her.

    Her text was a little harsh. Maybe she's socially awkward, and you can accept that. Maybe she started dating someone else and didn't want you calling while she was out with him.

    When you meet her, it won't be to get together with her. It will be to learn.

  • 8 years ago

    Ask her why she dumped you to begin with.What vibes that you gave off that made her react like that?

    It's nice that she's willing to give you a second chance, but this sounds almost like a head game here.The last thing you want is someone who thrives on drama. Go with your gut instinct here, but don't ignore the red flags if there are any. Good luck.

  • 8 years ago

    Sounds fishy. Maybe she is keeping you on the back burner, as a last resort.

    I know people like this. They have a series of people they 'date'. They get a bit serious with one, then something happens and they fall back on one of the other guys for support.

    In all reality it is up to you to meet her for drinks. But just be careful.

  • 8 years ago

    Go for it, but don't get your hopes up, she did it once, she will do it again, I like her why not.

    Some things I regret in life are the ones I didn't take a chance, there's no going back now.

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  • 8 years ago

    As a guy I would suggest you walk away from this. Any girl who does this or is trying to play games shouldn't be around. Trust me real women aren't like this!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    it could be a couple things. she doesnt like u "like that".

    shes waitin for something better to come along.

    shes bored and wants to go out.

    dont go. if shes a good girl keep her as a good friend.

    u'll find someone right for u and theyll want u to call.

    Source(s): im a female. i just know.
  • 8 years ago

    i would stay away, if shes changing her mind that severely she MAY have some bipolar thing going on or something.

    if you like her then maybe try to find out why she dident want you to contact her, maybe she dident change her mind like i said above. maybe she was seeing someone else and they dident want her seeing you, or maybe her dad saw a text from you and told her not to talk to guys. idk how old you 2 are or anything so its hard to say other reasons.

  • 8 years ago

    Tell her no, she was willing to say goodbye to you so thats the end of it from both you two. Move on and find someone who isnt as fickle.

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