I was cleaning today and found 3 condoms of various brands under his hat on the dining table. I am concerned that my father is seeing prostitutes. I know it's none of my business, but I don't want my father wasting money on condoms and prostitutes. Were in a rough economic situation right now and that is a huge waste of money. I don't know what to do. Should I confront him? He is a single man so it's not like he's cheating on his wife/girlfriend.
WardGirl
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Even if he was what you are going to do about it. His life is not your concern is it. Look at the world and then ask yourself the question again. Really think about it. Worry about yourself. You cannot change him whether he was or not. Besides most people cannot remain single for long. So tell us what do you think and then ask yourself how long can a person stay single and than figure out what type of person you want to be.
Frankie
Sex is part of life when you become an adult. It's one of the basic needs other than food and shelter a person must have. He is single and needs some loving. Be it that you catch him in the toilet masterbating, or getting a quick fix from a hooker it's all he knows now. Don't over react. Old people move slow towards technology. All you need to do is help him. start by buying him a cheap disposable phone or an email address and sign him up with pof.com and you hook him up with potential soulmates. Mind you it's not easy to find the right one. But you just have to try and let him have fun with it. It's free and this is how people meet today. I hope this helps and at least he wraps it up.
Hannah
That's a really difficult situation. I would wait to confront him about it. If you find another clue hinting towards him being with prostitutes, definitely bring it up. But it's kind of iffy from what I understand. Don't be to quick too jump to conclusions because then he will just get offended.
Marissa
Maybe he has had some casual sex or has someone he has been seeing and just has not introduced her to you. Don't assume the worst. I don't think him buying some condoms is a big deal. Just keep an eye out.
Anonymous
Maybe he is seeing someone. And even if he is seeing prostitutes money shouldn't be your biggest concern. STDs, HIVs should be. But if he feeling lonely...let him. It must suck to all of sudden stop having intimate contact.