Is this strange that she would ask me this?

Hey folks! Something happened a while back that's bothered me, and I just want to see how you'd react or what you think about this situation.

Last summer, my wife's daughter came down for a visit. Maybe a mile from my house there's a strip club. As we were riding by, she says that we should go there. I'm not really into strip clubs, but I just kinda laughed it off as just her trying to be funny. Why would she ask me to go to a strip club with her? As her mother's husband, I don't think it's right for her and myself to be going into a strip club. She's a grown woman, and I was never a part of raising her. By the time my wife and I got together, she was already grown and on her own, so I'm not stepdaddy, I'm just her mothers husband. Was this weird or am I reading to much into this?

/2014-01-10T23:35:40Z

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Sounds like one adult joking with another to me. You don't say that in the past year she's been bothering you for a date to that strip club, so I think that either you're reading too much into it, or maybe you secretly do want to go there and the idea has stuck with you.

Anonymous2014-01-10T23:03:47Z

Could be reading too much OR.......
She may be sounding out to get a reaction.

Not quite the place for her and her mothers husband to attend, but maybe their was an attempt to get you to say "OH yes when ?"
She could ? then say to your Wife, your husband said...............
Best to not read too much for safety sake.
If it were to be asked again (or something similar) then you are entitled to ask why she would want to go to such a place.

NESA2014-01-10T23:11:11Z

If she hasn't brought it up again she probably was joking. If she asks again tell her to ask her mom or bring it up when all three of you are present. Don't read anything into it since she didn't push for it