Last night I had sex with this guy, we weren't anything like boyfriend and girlfriend, just friends. He didn't come or anything so is it my fault or his? I gave him head for like an hour so I dont know if im bad or not. I don't know if I should be embarrassed or if he should be someone please help.
Emily
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Holy #!%*! You are not a skank! You chose to have sex with a person who you may or may not care about. It's your choice and don't ever let anybody tell you that your worth depends on your sexual experiences!
As for your question, it's not your fair he didn't get off after an hour of head. In the future, if you think it's taking a long time, ask him if there is something he likes that you're not doing. Communication is key! Otherwise, most guys can orgasm in way less than an hour with less than perfect head. They're not usually hard to please!
Have fun, and stay safe :)
Mommyma
That's silly. Neither of you need to be embarrassed. You each just need to make sure you're not making decisions that could negatively affect your life. It's really good to be in a stable relationship or even married before you bring the sex(BABIES, STDS, EMOTIONS) into it. You can still go back to being abstinent and be really proud that just because you lost your v-card you chose to have the willpower to wait until it's special. However, I am telling what I think is the best advice, BUT I did not personally follow my advice. There is no reason to feel like it was someone's fault. It sounds like neither of you said no, so it was either NEITHER of your faults, or BOTH of your fault. I would go with neither, since why worry about it??
corina
If he didnt *** after getting head for an hour then there is something wrong with him!!! Its not your fault!! And dont listen to anyone who tells you that you are a skank!!! I wouldnt be embarrassed about him not cumming. Next time ask him if there is something he likes. If you feel like having sex, that is your choice but make sure you are safe about it!! There are so many diseases out there!! And dont forget to habe fun with sex. People are to uptight about sex anymore!!
Mr Kus
If you just gave him head and he didn't put his penis in you than your still a virgin. On a side note something must be wrong with the guy if you gave him head for an hour and he didn't come.
Knowme
So you admit you got your male friend completely and totally sexually aroused and then you ask if it is your fault? You answered your own question.