Ok, so I lost my virginity last night...?

U are no longer a virgin despite your "cherry popping" or not, a penis penetrated you and you had sex.

As far as everything else, u just had bad sex. Sounds like u didn't reach a orgasm, if u had u would've mentioned it. The 1st time doesn't always equal bad sex, my 1st time was with a guy whom I didn't know for long, but we had good sexual chemistry and I reached the big O. U also sound pretty young so maybe your just not ready. For me good sex is just as mental as physical, so maybe u just need to relax and wait until there's a connection, or u just can't take it anymore and want to know what all the fuss is about, just use protection.

BTW sex is amazing when its done properly, its mind blowingly earth shattering!!

"Also, I'm pretty sure my cherry didn't get popped, so would that still consider me a virgin even though I was penetrated?"

Your hymen status is irrelevant. You had sex. You are not a virgin.

Frankly, I think you just had sex to "get it done and over with". You weren't emotionally attached to him nor the event. That's fine if that is what you like to do. That being said though when you have emotional sex for the first time you will see the difference and wonder why you didn't consider it an important event in the first place.

There is no switch, no magical song that starts playing the next day because you aren't a virgin anymore (at least there wasnt for me) but I am comforted to know that it was with someone I loved and I don't regret it. Your first time should be a good experience, always a little awkward lol which is to be expected, but overall.. you will remember it for the rest of your life.

You aren't a virgin anymore.

It's sad that you want to disassociate so much and just not feel.. it makes me wonder why you bothered to have sex or even be in a relationship in the first place? Seems like you have other emotional issues to deal with.

You do not have to have any sexual actions for your cherry to get popped. it couldve been popped by simply riding a horse. and no your not a virgin anymore because you have actually had sex. you probably dont have any real connectivity with this guy so thats why you feel no emotion for him.

cherries dont always pop

you could have popped i by doing anything as a child.. like horseriding/different menstural pad things that go inside... tampons i think they are called

so that doesnt always happen

i wasnt emotionaly attacted and i was the one to break up

yep its short

god knows whta all the hype is all about it

To answer your question about the virginity part, you are no longer a virgin. You were penetrated by a penis, you are no longer a virgin.

Ur still a virgin I lost mine when I was 13 and she felt different it makes u feel mOre in love and u cherry didnt pop so ur a virgin sorry

Seks can be good and change nothing. When you are a virgin then it simply cant be good,it will be painfull. Don't worry soo much,it'll turn out good.

I just think your Boyfriend is a LOUSY LAY...

Had you had an earth shattering experience... your life would have changed.

That's nice. You had sex with a boy you don't care about. sad.