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Ok, one of my first ideas for a tattoo in memory of my cousin was actually a tree, kinda dead looking, with like maybe a butterfly or a few flying around it...then i found a quote to put under it that i like

"The leaves of memory seemed to make

A mournful rustling in the dark."

Ok, I already have a tattoo on my shoulder, it's a moon and stars with clouds underneath it, it's in color. So would a dead looking tree, with butterflies flying around it, and then the quote underneath it on my back look good? or would that just be too much? Then I was thinkin, if not on my back then on my side, but I'm curvy, so idk if it would look good there....give your thoughts, ideas, and opinions.

and should i get it in black? or should i get it in a dark brown? or what colors do ya'll think?

and thiswill take up a good portion of my back, from the words, itll go from my lower back, all the way to below my shoulder blades.

and also, can anyone give me an estimate?

and no one tell me that i shouldn't get it. it's in memory of my cousin who died. and i already have one tattoo, so telling me not to get it would be pointless.

go big or go home right?

I know tattoos on the ribs and side look good on skinny people with small curves, but would a side/rib tattoo look good on a curvier girl? I have nice curves, but I'm not skinny by anymeans. I'm just trying to find a placement for my next tattoo, I wanted it on my foot, but I wont be able to cover it.

Don't tell me not to get a tattoo or anything, I already have one, and this next one I am getting will be in memory of my cousin who died 4 months premature. She would be 6 in December. She died when I was only in 7th grade and wasn't quite sure how to handle that, so this will be in memory of her.

I was thinking about having stars come down from the side of my right shoulder blade, down along my side, then have a premature birth awareness ribbon and a butterfly sitting like on my hip near my pelvic bone area. Would that look good? or not?

So...I just recently got out of a relationship, and a week later the guy tells me why he broke up with me...Have any of you ever broke up with a girl because you were getting to close to her family and her and got scared? Or got to close to the girl and her family and was afraid you'd lose once she went off to college? Even though you knew college was a factor when ya'll started going out.

Girls, what would you think if a guy told you that?

Also, he took my virginity*which I'm not too upset about at this point in time*

Give me your thoughts and opinions on this whole matter.

Yes, I will get tested too..but how do you ask your boyfriend, or tell your boyfriend that you want him to get tested before having sex again without p*issing him off?

Ok, in December, in memory of my baby cousin who died prematurely, I am getting a tattoo that's goes from the side of my right foot and around my ankle.

It will have stars and maybe little dots along the side of my foot, cutting up around the front of my ankle, wrapping around the back of my leg. Then I am going to have a premature birth ribbon on my ankle, then a butterfly sitting on top of the ribbon...

I don't care what ya'll say I already have one on my shoulder, and this one has a lot of meaning, as I said before.

I just want to know an estimate, because its not gonna be very big..and shouldn't take too terribly long.

This is kinda what the basic design will look like

http://www.tattoofinder.com/find_tattooDB.asp?page...

It's the first one with the stars trailing the butterfly.

So, my boyfriend and I have hit a rough patch in our relationship.

He's one of those guys who likes to bottle everything up and not let me in and know what's going on. It is really frustrating!

I really want to talk to him about things that are running through my head, and I know he has a lot goin on in his mind, but how do I get him to talk?

Any advice?

He is also known to break up with me, and other people, when things don't seem to be going good.

Please help, I don't want this relationship to end just because we can't talk things out.

So I lost my virginity last night, and I don't feel any different than what I did before that.

Is that normal?

It was nothing like I expected. It wasn't as emotional as I thought, it was shorter, and not as painful.

Also, I'm pretty sure my cherry didn't get popped, so would that still consider me a virgin even though I was penetrated?

I'm kinda confused on the whole thing.

Also, I'm pretty sure if my boyfriend broke up with me, it really wouldn't affect me all that much.

I think it's because when I first messed around I was so emotionally hurt that after that time I just put all emotions aside when ever I would do something.

Could I have done this?

Anything would help, or any thoughts or personal experience

http://www.tattoofinder.com/find_tattooDB.asp?page...

Its the first tattoo on this page, the one with the butterfly then the stars are trailing it.

Now don't give me a lecture on not to get the tattoo cuz I already have one*I'm 18* And this will be in memory of my baby cousin who died prematurely 6 years ago this december so it has a deep meaning to it. First i was gonna get it on my back, but then I got to thinkin, the one on my back already is too big to get another tattoo really without carefully planning it, so I was thinking about getting it on my right foot.

The tattoo would go from the side of my fight foot*by my pinky toe* come up and go around my ankle then have the butterfly resting on my ankle, and maybe even have the butterfly resting on something as part of the design.

What are ya'lls thoughts on this, no matter what I'm getting this design, but I'm trying to find a good placement for it.

I had a baby cousin who died prematurely 6 years ago this december. I want to get a tattoo in remembrance of her.

http://www.tattoofinder.com/find_tattooDB.asp?page...

Its the tattoo with the stars then a butterfly up at the top.

the stars would be from my lower back up to the middle of my spine, then the butterfly would probably be on my side or i might bring it up all the way to my right shoulder blade, but I already have a pretty big tattoo on my left shoulder blade thats about 6x6.

Any suggestions or ideas?

Ok, it's easy for a guy to call a girl w.e. like babe, baby girl, darlin, sweetheart, etc. But what do guys like to be called?

I call my guy "hun" a lot of times, but what else do you guys like to be called?

Girls, what do you call you guys

Girls, women, whoever, how did you know when you were ready for your first time having sex? What kind of things went through your mind before you decided it was time? Was you married? Was you with your boyfriend for a long time? Do you regret your first time and wished you waited?

Guys, this may sound like a strange question, but do you like being able to take the virginity of a woman?

Any kind of information would be great.

Thanks!

My boyfriend and I are now on our 4th round of dating. We have been dating on and off again for almost 2 years. It always starts out really nice at first, but then by the end of the first week he seems to lose interest. His parents, and family love me. To me, I'm the ideal girlfriend. I got good grades in High School, I'm going off to college, I can take his sarcasm and jokes, I'd do almost anything for him. Him and I also work, He has one job and I have 2. The only thing I won't do with him is have sex because I am still a virgin, and I am not ready to have sex; plus I am trying to wait for marriage. He's been saying all the right things and keeps telling me he's falling for me hard, but how do I keep him from running off to someone else? He has a tendacy to go back to exs, but 3 of em he cant..and another one is psycho. So I'm the only one left and I really like him. Any answers will be helpful!

Thanks.

If you need more information, let me know.

if he doesn't contribute to the conversation? All he says is "ic" or "idk". It seems like whenever I got to talk to him, my mind goes blank and I can't think of anything to say, and he doesn't help it out any. I have asked him on many occasions to say more than "ic" or "idk". It will last for a day, if that, but then he'll go back to his normal habit. Also, what things can we talk about to try and get past the ic or idk comments.

Please and Thanks :)

My hair is really thick compared to most people's hair. My hair is already shoulder length with a couple layers put into it and kinda choppy. I was wondering if anyone had any idea on anything else i could do to it, or any pictures youd think would show what i want. my face is kinda round so i need something to make my face look good too. im not a big fan of bangs either

ok this school year...i want to be a lil more social with guys...even if it means asking them out on dates instead of waiting for them to come around to me...

like our fall dance *jack of hearts* how would i ask a guy i think is cute to go with me if i dont know him...or if i even do...

or just to hang out sometime to get to know each other

years older than i am i like him sorta...hes a good looking guy well we hung out alot on a trip we went on with our church... he has a gf...and we didnt talk practically at all til this trip... so we hang out alot...we wrestle round in the sand and water at the beach as friends... but on the way home he sits by me instead of this other guy who hes friends with...? so wat exactly does that mean? im confused alot... so please help me out here