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How do you get your boyfriend to open up?

So, my boyfriend and I have hit a rough patch in our relationship.

He's one of those guys who likes to bottle everything up and not let me in and know what's going on. It is really frustrating!

I really want to talk to him about things that are running through my head, and I know he has a lot goin on in his mind, but how do I get him to talk?

Any advice?

He is also known to break up with me, and other people, when things don't seem to be going good.

Please help, I don't want this relationship to end just because we can't talk things out.

Update:

He's doing the same thing to me, he also has double standards

He can ignore all my calls and texts, but the minute I ignore one of his texts(because I'm sleeping and I didn't have to get up as early for work as usual) he gets all pissy..

he says he needs "space" and "time to think" but while he needs that, I need my boyfriend to talk to and sort out all the confusion in my head.

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  • 10 years ago
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    yeah i know what you mean, im going through the same thing and there is nothing we can do, i have sent him texts called him but he just ignores me

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