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how do i ask a guy out if im not a good at talking to guys?

ok this school year...i want to be a lil more social with guys...even if it means asking them out on dates instead of waiting for them to come around to me...

like our fall dance *jack of hearts* how would i ask a guy i think is cute to go with me if i dont know him...or if i even do...

or just to hang out sometime to get to know each other

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Its 2008 and whoever still thinks that girls can't ask out guys are losers. Jus first ask him if he has a girl and if he says no then ask him why not and if he tells u his not looking for a girl right now then he's jus not interested in u cuz he's lying. If he says he hasn't found the right one yet then ask tell him he mightve jus found the right one. And ask him out.

    If you're that shy and can't approach a dude at all. Then jus have one of your FEMALE friends approach him and tell him youre interested in him. Good luck And he better b cute. LOL.

  • 1 decade ago

    at the dance ask the guy to dance then he will become interested in you more also talk to the guy not as a girlfriend but as a friend and see what you two like then ask to hang out

    in other words take it slow

  • 1 decade ago

    You should approach the boys of your choice. Waiting means not putting efforts and consequentlu decreasing the probabilty of results u expect. Live ur life king size as it is the only chance to enjoy it the fullest. Come out of ur shyness of all kinds.

  • 1 decade ago

    may b what u should do is like , go out with a group of friends insted ...guys + girls, try , like go to a movie together or juz hav some fun at the ammusement park , get to know the guy a little better THEN ...if he still doesnt ask u out ....u can ask him :)

    if u dont ask him, u might regret it for the rest of ur life ;/

    SO GOOD LUCK !!! go out n hav funnnnn !!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just smile when you get a chance. When your near spark a SIMPLE conversation. Don't PLAN ANYTHING!! Let it come out natural.

    AND MOST OF ALL BE YOURSELF. You can "weed" out the wrong people if your yourself. If he's not interested, so be it. Move on to the next.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Smile until they say something. Laugh at their jokes. Impress him with your wit and kindness. Ask him to join you for a coffee after school. Ask him if he wants your phone number.

  • 1 decade ago

    Oh wow.. finally a girl who considers asking a guy.

    It doesn't matter how you ask him. He'll be super surprised and flattered either way.

    GO FOR IT!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if ur a girl your not supposed to ask a guy out it takes the adventure out of it i say you flirt like crazy...throw a couple of ugh being single sucks out and you should be able to get a date

  • 1 decade ago

    Just say " I am planning to go to.... when and where... . Do you think you are interested to go with me ?"

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Walk up to him and say wanna hang out sometime? shiit it aint that hard

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