If your boyfriend first shows you his place and it has dishes all over the house , clothes on the floor And beer spilled on the carpets ...?

What would you say ? My boyfriend was raised with sloppy parents so I give him the" bod " but I've been cleaning the place afterwards and put dishes away and I feel he could care less either way .

Helen2016-10-20T06:44:38Z

And you didn't run, the first time you saw that? He couldn't even clean the place up for the first time his new girlfriend was about to visit. He's not going to change. Why are you with this lazy pig? He doesn't want a girlfriend, he wants a maid.

MonicaHernandezCervantes2016-10-20T07:29:37Z

I would vomit. I wouldnt go over there. And you are cleaning it and he doesnt care? I would throw in the trash... Dishes everything. If he gets upset I would walk away. If he wants me he'll change. But thats me. And you sound like a fool to me.

?2016-10-20T07:03:21Z

If he's a slob, he is. It's his place. He can be as much of a slob as he likes, i guess? I wouldn't clean it.