I wanted to get thoughts on this. Would it be ok to delay wedding anniversary and go a couple of weeks later? I was thinking something we both liked doing before kids such as an amusement park for the day.
Thoughts?
betty m
Ask your wife if it is ok if you have your anniversary early.
Anonymous
I suggest you do not celebrate Mother's Day. And have tests done to determine who the fathers of your children are
Athena
Oh, this is something you REALLY need to talk to your wife about ONLY.
We get really picky on special occasions.
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You two can do whatever you want. If you want to celebrate your anniversary later, then do that (PLENTY of people celebrate anniversaries and birthdays, as well as other events/holidays, on days other than the calendar date the event falls on).
Acknowledge your anniversary on the date it falls, and plan to actually celebrate it on a date that's convenient to you both. No worries. You can celebrate it earlier than the date, later than the date, or not at all if you two choose. It's really a personal preference. Lots of people have scheduling issues in Life.
Anonymous
Of course that's fine. Celebrate things whenever you can fit them in. You can't control when someone else has their birthday party, but you are in charge of scheduling your own celebrations at a time that's convenient for you.