Am I being used..? Dating advice?

Hello,
I’m a 24 year old closeted guy. In February of this year (2018) I began to see a 40 year old man. At first it was just for sex. Then it got deeper. I fell in love with him but he doesn’t feel the same way. He tells me that he has feelings for me, but won’t act on them. He says he had a traumatic relationship before and isn’t ready for a relationship or even an exclusive one. And now I feel like I’m being used because I know he still is seeing (having sex with) other men. I tell him and he just says “I’ve told you before I’m not going to begin a relationship with you”.
I’d just like some advice on this.
Please no judging. Thanks

Anonymous2018-09-07T14:37:59Z

look like !

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Foofa2018-09-06T03:00:57Z

If you're enjoying the sex then you're not being "used". But if your goal is marriage and/or a settled domestic relationship you're not going to find it with this man.

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Anonymous2018-09-05T11:06:18Z

YES - Groomed and being used as a semen disposal bucket.

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bender_xr2172018-09-05T08:30:00Z

He told you, "I’ve told you before I’m not going to begin a relationship with you”.
He isn't using you, he's abiding by what he said.
If you still want to see him you have to accept those terms, otherwise move on.

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Anonymous2018-09-05T08:29:57Z

despite my feelings about men with men he has been honest with you. if it was a girl writing the advice would be to leave the relationship. take that advice. there is a song 'breaking up is hard to do' but must be better than a lifetime of misery

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