At what point is it ok to not want a man who needs his girlfriend to pay bill.?

Q2 assuming a house has a minimum of 6 bills. why is it wrong to want a guy who can pay 3 of his own bills and I pay the other 3 for him on my own. Why do I have to help him pay half of all his bills.

3 What can someone who can’t do for their self do for someone else 

?2021-02-03T18:16:52Z

At any point. In fact most people wouldn't have ever gotten involved with a guy who can't pay his own bills. 

?2021-02-03T04:52:48Z

If you are living together and agreed to split the living expenses ...Apparently he wants to split the cost of living by adding all the bills together and splitting the total cost of all bills in half. That creates an even 50/50 split.

If you do not want to split the cost of living with your boyfriend, then move out, get your own place and pay your own bills. If you don't live with him and are paying some of his bills, that is your stupidity, not his.

Nekkid Truth!2021-02-02T13:00:49Z

 Relationships aren't always 50/50.
Depends on your individual relationship..  if you can afford it or if he's really being a sponge and draining you, can he afford his full share etc.If you have the higher income/work more and pay most of the bills, he should be picking up the slack and doing most of the household chores.


Slicktwerp.  Sounds like she is paying her half PLUS half of his half..   so she's paying 75% of the bills.

thebax20062021-02-02T12:59:47Z

Sounds like you have a bad habit of picking low life boyfriends. 

?2021-02-02T04:30:42Z

Melt my brain. The minimum length of an answer is 15 characters

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