Which college should I go to?? ?

I'm not going to blindly go based on these responses, but it will be a factor.

Now, I've been accepted/waitlisted to UMASS Amherst, Central Michigan University, Indiana University Bloomington, and Wellesley College

Here are the pros and cons for me:
UMASS AMHERST:
- pros: My mom works there so I get a discount off of tuition
full ride scholarship opportunity (but not sure if I have it yet) 
food is fantastic
has a microbiology major
close to family
-cons:
Didn't get accepted into the music minor program
The majority of people in my school go to UMASS- although it's a big school I'll likely not see them
close to family

CENTRAL MICHIGAN UNIVERSITY:
-pros:
20$ scholarship
the cheapest college I can go to (if I don't get the full ride scholarship at UMASS)
Close to family
-cons:
not as great a college as the others
doesn't have my major (but has biology and pre-med)
my mom doesn't want me to go

INDIANA UNIVERSITY BLOOMINGTON-
pros: 
has my major
great education
close to family 
has been one of my top choices since seventh grade
cons:
not safe- like AT all 
lots of pollution
my mom doesn't want me to go there
cost 50K a year to attend

WELLESLEY COLLEGE: 
pros:
fantastic college
a good challenge 
is DIII school meaning I'd have a change on the basketball team
opportunity to take classes at Harvard and MIT
cons: 
doesn't have my major (but has biology and pre-med)
I'm waitlisted so it's a risk if I commit to Wellesley and withdraw all my other applications.

LMK what you think!

2021-04-07T16:15:09Z

I meant to say 20K$ Scholarship for Central Michigan lol

Anonymous2021-04-08T13:48:38Z

None of the above.  Save yourself all the future hardship and just skip it altogether.  You don't need a college degree to be successful.  There are more people out there with college degrees who are complete and utter failures.

?2021-04-08T00:26:33Z

You seem pretty well able to itemize the pros and cons for each choice, already. If I were in your well heeled shoes, (it must have taken a lot of bucks to make all those applications!), I'd pick the one that costs the least, as long as its accredited. In the end, its the degree that counts most, not where you got it from. 

Anonymous2021-04-07T18:03:54Z

Pretty simple. You go to the school that is cheapest for you to attend.  Get out of your undergrad degree with as little student debt as possible. 20k scholarships won’t cover your first year. 


Go talk to people paying off student loans. They can easily be over $1000  per month. 

My son in law went to a medium sized State school.  Graduated summa *** laude.  Got a five year tuition scholarship with a striped and health insurance to get his doctorate degree. 

?2021-04-07T16:17:08Z

I'd say go to UMASS. Save your money for graduate school. 

Spock (rhp)2021-04-07T13:08:49Z

Ask Amherst to let you delay your decision until their financial aid people act on scholarships for you [this is normal -- there's no reason they should refuse -- it would like buying a car without knowing the price].  Wait on Wellesley -- they likely have best connections toward getting into med school [which, i take it, is what you want to do].  drop IU and CMU -- negatives too big relative to your situation.  -- married 32 years to Uni Professor

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