My husband is very slow. He's very uneducated. Should I keep going?
I'm scared for the future because we've only dated for a year before getting married. He's a very nice man, he does a lot for me. But sometimes I feel like he doesn't care. He's showing his true colors these past couple months and we've only been married for 2 years and 6 months. He doesn't care about anything. He doesn't even know my birthday. He doesn't know when our wedding day took place. He doesn't even remember his own birthday. He can try to learn if he wanted, but he never does. He doesn't care about anything. He just goes through life not knowing a thing about anyone. I felt so embarrassed for him the other day. We were at the doctors and they asked him when his birthday was and he kept looking at me to come help him. The doctor than asked him when my birthday was and he straight up said he doesn't know. I had to give the information. He doesn't even know when our wedding date is. I fell in love with him because he was nice to me. But now, he's changed a lot. He's become such a jerk. All he does is demand and think he's the boss of me. He never lets me go out without him. He goes crazy if I ever leave the house with him not knowing. He even lost his job and won't let me work. After losing his job, he never bothers to help me in the house. He keeps saying that everything is a woman's job while he sits around doing nothing but playing video games and scrolling through his phone. He always blames me for him becoming like this and often tells me he wasn't like this until
I entered his life. He somehow always makes it my fault. On top of all the mess, he wants a child and I keep saying no. He keeps hiding my birth control so I refuse sex and it turns into a huge fight. I don't know what to do anymore. What should I do?