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UNMARRIED and SEX?

For it or against it???? Does it require marrige to be right?

Update:

I personally believe sex is the most precious gift that one person can give to another. And two people that save themselves for each other, get to have an 'earth shaking' experience that most of us only dream of, that no other sexual relationship can compare to. And though I'm not one that believes marriage, is nescessary, I do believe that how people engage in it, like it's no more than playing a game of checkers, is a waste of a truly wonderful experience. If they'd have taken and waited alittle longer, it would've been a pleasurable experience they'd have rememberer for the rest of their life.! Instead, alot of people can't even remember the person's name in a couple of years.

Update 2:

I personally believe sex is the most precious gift that one person can give to another. And two people that save themselves for each other, get to have an 'earth shaking' experience that most of us only dream of, that no other sexual relationship can compare to. And though I'm not one that believes marriage, is nescessary, I do believe that how people engage in it, like it's no more than playing a game of checkers, is a waste of a truly wonderful experience. If they'd have taken and waited alittle longer, it would've been a pleasurable experience they'd have remembered for the rest of their life.! Instead, alot of people can't even remember the person's name in a couple of years.

Update 3:

OOPS, LOL...lol.. NEVER Accidentally hit the add button TWICE, or this will happen to you, too.!! lol..lol.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    It would be a wonderful thing if both partners in a marriage were virgins and had the chance to experience intimacy for the first time with each other.

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  • 2 decades ago

    It is nice to at least be in a commited relationship.

    Unless you are trying to have a baby, sex is for pleasure. It is to make your body feel good. If you are in love with somebody it also sort of defines that love, but otherwise its like getting a massage, but better. Do you have to be married to a massage therapist just to get a massage?

    Bottom line: your body, your brain, your heart. your decision. but be careful

    And if you are under 18 NO WAY

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Good question.....I see it bothe ways .. I was raised in a Christian family and was taught that you should substain from sex until you are married... so one part of me says yes, its only right if you are married....

    But I also think that if two people truely love each other that they don't need a piece of paper(A marriage license) to say that they can be together!

  • 2 decades ago

    if you are playing by THE MOST HIGH WAYS,yes you have to be married before you have sex,because being married is holy and the bed undefile,in which case you will be bless.on the other hand if it is by man rules,the answer is no,with this you will not be bless or you could end up with aids or some other life threatening disease.make your choice.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    OMG, yes! You have to get married before having sex! What if you had a baby and then you two broke up? The baby would have no last name!

  • 2 decades ago

    yes because what if later on you get married to another man your man will still remember what u have done and he will talk about it to your man and he might think you are a whore because you probably will do other people too and they might tell that to your husband.those men dont care they are not committed to you so dont do it

  • 2 decades ago

    well it depends on the people involved,whether to wait until they are married so to hav sex or not.But according to the Holy Bible, sex was ment for a married couple to celebrate their marriage.

    Source(s): Holy Book
  • 2 decades ago

    you can have sex with anyone providing it is consensual . It is a very old fashioned concept that you have to first be married to have sex and i dont think anyone abides by these obsolete morales anymore

  • 2 decades ago

    I see nothing wrong with premarital sex. Juat as with anything else it requires responsibility and good common sense!

  • 2 decades ago

    Yes it requires marriage..wish i would havelearned that earlier in my life.

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