My husband is fooling around with hard-core porno stuff via mail. I don't like that. Should I confront him?

Does he send them to his friends via postal mail or e-mail? I can't pinpoint why, but something would seem wrong to me if it was postal mail.

Anyway... The key words are "I don't like that." If you don't approve, you owe it to yourself to at least say something. What to do after that, only you can answer, but unless you fear a violent response, you really should say or do something.

Oh yeah! It doesn't matter how old he is. He is in a committed relationship and lusting after someone else is just wrong. This can lead to a much bigger problem, if it hasn't already. How does it make you feel? How would he feel if he were in your shoes? Would he confront you? He may be trying to be the big man with his friends, but what does it do to your perspective of him? Which is going to be more important to him? It doesn't matter if it's e-mail, playboy, or videos it's all disgusting and disrespectful of you and your relationship with him.

You should just let him be. As long as he is not looking at underaged kids, he should be just fine. He is just probably wishing he could still do some of that stuff with you. Maybe you should get into it with him..it may spark something up in your sex life that he is missing and that may be the reason he is looking at porn so much and intently. Think about it.

You should definently confront him, I had the same problem with this at the beginning of my marriage. I said something about it and now we completely understand one another. It is not allowed unless I know about it. If you keep your feelings inside all it will do is hurt you more and he won't have a clue.

simply, forward hardcore porn toward his work, the extreme and disgusting stuff, think animals, chances are his co worker will think less of him, make sure some of it accidental gets forwarded to his boss as well

Ya, i would definitely confront him....he doesn't know you no about it he needs to no it bothers you...i would confront my hubby and speak my mind...or he may get out of control with it..good luck

Yes you should let him know that no matter how devious and slick he thinks he's being, you're onto him and he's lost his damn mind if he thinks you're going to tolerate this. He may think you dumb but never think you stupid.

...you should confront him of course, otherwise he will fool around with amateur-hardcore-porn every day and that`s what you don`t want him to do, or not??? so confront him or watch pornos with him and enjoy it....;-)