Married Guys....I'm Married & Looking for Insight ...?

Do not listen to the first B*I*T*C*H she is beeing rude!!

1. if he is taking any other meds there could be a side affect in the form of low sex drive.

2. ED is a real downer for a man he could be feeling not like a "real" man.

the solution for you is to stroke his ego make him feel sexy and attractive some times in these situations that is what they are felling ( not attaractive or sexy)

ask the doctor if there is side affects ot any meds that he is taking.

it is not you!!!! it his issue that needs to be uncovered.

God Bless and good luck!!!

Having ED maybe embarrasses him to the point he avoids sex but I suspect the reason causing him both issues may be low testosterone. He should see a urologist and tell him about the low sex drive. It is an easy fix but he has to be honest with the doctor. They can check him with a simple blood test and supplements will correct the problem.

Make sure he keeps taking his medication so his self confidence doesn't take any more of a hit than it already has. That's the main reason he's avoiding sex - he's afraid he's going to fail. You're doing the right thing, though...keep being playful and trying to draw him out of his shell.

Because men sometimes have tied their masculinity to their sexuality they can sometimes feel like less than a man if they have any problems in this area. He may just be feeling less than a man because he knows he has to use medicine to have an erection. You see he may think that you are trying to over compensate for his lack and he may think you really don't want to have to go to all the trouble. Also you may need to tell him you love him and want him to want to make love to you sometimes because you feel too aggressive at times. Let him know that you want to be a beauty to unveil.

you want to be pursued like a princess in a tower awaiting her prince to come to her rescue, who can then reward her dashing prince with wondrous pleasures.

Or if you just want him to be a horn dog just spike his evening meal with his ED medication. Just kidding sort of.

try talking to him about the way you feel he might just have a low sex drive from the medication he is takin

try and rekindle the romance :). take him for a romantic getaway, jsut the two of you for the weekend and suprise him with something he thinks is sexy :)

good luck!

he isnt interested in u and doesnt want to say anything

he needs his treatment.

i wish you luck both.