Should I listen to my head, or my heart?

I think its best to listen to your heart, You have a wonderful guy in your hands.Maybe its time to move on and accpet changes. Tell this guy that you are scared of being committed agian. Since he understands your dilemma Im sure he'll understand how you are feeling. It might be soon, but better now than never. He seems like a really nice guy, take a shot. You can to move on anyway and you now have an oppourtunity. Good luck!

I could write a long reply but no matter what is written here, it all comes down to you. Are you comfortable enough to move on to that point? Your heart says not to lose him, and he says that he is not going anywhere. I would suggest to take things one step at a time then.

he says he is willing to wait. then, take it slow. let him read this post, i'm sure he'll understand. being with honesty now and you'll start the relationship off on the right foot. Good luck.

Well you've been up front with him so that's a good thing! I say go for it but just watch the speed limit. Take things slow. Good luck!

Seems like a good guy if he's wiling to wait then you should also allow your self time to heal and it'll be worth it in the end

It's better to lose him to someone than it is to be with him and evetually leave him because of your feelings for your previous man and have him never wanting to speak to you again.

Listen to your heart. the head more often than not gets in the way.

u shud listen to ur mind n trust ur heart coz,heart can never betray u.so carry on.wish u all the best.

Follow your heart... paths cross for reasons... move slow but forwards... Flow!!

if he tols you that he would wait then take his word and fellow your heart do what you think is right maybe this new guy is the one for you