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Will He Come Back To Me?

My boyfriend of 12 years broke u

my boyfriend of 12years recently broke up with me and had his ex girlfriend move in with within months of our breakup.Recently he has been calling me often and sees me,he says he misses me.i am confused Will he come back to meor am I just kidding myself? I still love him.We were good together.

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  • 2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    If he left once for another, he'll do it again!!!

    Source(s): Had girl leave me & come back 3 times--won't happen again!!
  • 2 decades ago

    The worst thing that could happen to you would be if he came back, he chose to move on and now he is regretting that choice, he is keeping his options open, the question you should be asking yourself is how will you handle it when and if he leaves again? In his mind leaving is an option that he is more than prepared to explore, at this point you need to look out for you, a relationship without commitment is a one night stand or an affair, this is the truth, what are you looking for? If it's just an affair find someone new because he may be willing to make a commitment, the ex has already demonstrated that he is not...

    Good Luck. j.swaney@yahoo.com

  • 2 decades ago

    I really hate to answer a question,with a question,

    but,Why would you want him back?

    If he left you that meant he did'nt love you to start with.I made the mistake of taking my ex back.We were divorced 10 yrs,I rebuilt my credit(that he helped ruin),was out on my own,did'nt depend on anyone but myself.I took him back,and in 15 months,he had me broke again.Some men never change.If he left you once,he'll do it again!! Steer clear of this guy!!Good luck.

  • atwork
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    After 12 years and still no commitment? I think you are better off without him...

    My crystal ball says you are so desperate you will get back together with him or rebound with the first guy

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  • 2 decades ago

    If you had been dating for 12 years and his ex moved in with him within months, that means that him and his ex have been in close contact for quite a while and probably planned this thing. hmm..

  • 2 decades ago

    Watcha wanna bet he's calling you up and crooning this bullshit to you when his g/f isn't around?

  • ?
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    it sounds more like he is having trouble breaking away from you, but ultimately that is what he will do...that will be VERY PAINFUL for you if you allow it. better to break cleanly now...

  • 2 decades ago

    if he truly love you back he will come back. he don;t love his ex-gal OK girl!!

    Source(s): me!!
  • 2 decades ago

    if he actually said he misses u, then yes, he'll come.

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