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I want to know if I really have a problem or I am just acting like it?

I love a guy since I was 13. I have been going to school and doing pretty well. But now when I have started to go universty it seems like Iwant to marry him instead of continuing my studies. All the time I keep thinking about marriage but my parents are not approving of it they want me to finish study first. I have never met this guy in my life. I do not understand why am I so much into this marriage thing. everyone tells me that it is hard to study after marriage. I am not doing very good in school.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    hi im not a big expert, and i dont know u, but as far as i understand u feeling this way is quite normal. no offence but i ges its normal for women to go throu this. i know loads of them who sunddly get in to this phase... so dont worry about it too much ok, its not a big problem its just a part of growing up. u sound pretty smart so i ges u will do the correct thing. stick to your studies. u said that u have never met him ! i dont think its really possible to love someone without really knowing that person. but i wont get in to that cos its cool. All i will say is the way u feel is quit normal so dont worry about it. its all about growing up so just take your time and enjoy it ok, it will pass, and please continu your studies trust me u will never regret it. hpoe things work out take care god bless.

  • 2 decades ago

    if you just will go to the university now it means that U are 18 or 19 which mean still young so i recommend you to continue your study and go on or you will regret for the rest of your life, marriage in your age now is not suitable still you do not face the real life and you still did not meet many people believe me the university life will will help you to see different people may be you will find your love there the real ove i mean or may out side the University you will find it,

    so your study is more important and valuable.

  • 2 decades ago

    your parents are right,finish your studies first for this is your duty to yourself.you are the one to benefit from it. is the guy also thinking of marriage?besides, i guess you are still young,and lots of opportunities (and guys) awaits you. take these opportunities to help you grow and become more mature. be patient.

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