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My bf keeps telling about his friends cheating!! what should I think? Please be honest guys!!?

I've been with my boyfrind for over a year and he keeps telling about how his friends (more than one) cheat on their wife and girfriend. Am I to assume that he is also doing it? He swears that he isn't cheating on me, but still I wonder. I know guys are competitive with each other, would they about this also?

I know the girls that are being cheating on, not closely but we do go out every ones in a while, should I tell? I know that would be betraying my bf's trust but there are kids involve and I feel horrible that I know!

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    Some guys talk to there friends and tell each other things that make them look good!!!!

    He talks to you in confidence because he has a very close connection with you.... Your a lucky girl!

    Dont assume unless you feel there is a good reason!

    Keep on top of things and dont worry.... Keep your man!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Woah!! sounds soo romantic! a wonderful love tale : ) . Congrats on looking your love. the good element is that your boyfriend gets over it quicker considering the fact which you had no longer been mutually that long anyhow. tell him this is no longer determining and that he will discover the girl that he's meant to be with. the two way you're all nonetheless youthful and your boyfriend will probable bypass by using a gaggle of girlfriends previously looking the single that he has no selection yet to settle with. from time to time a toddler will do it...that's what fairly some the ladies in my intense college ended up doing and that they do no longer look too chuffed reason they rushed into stuff. yet with a bit of luck your boyfriend might have a greater effective tale. You sound like your love so do no longer provide up on it in simple terms considering the fact which you do no longer % to injury your boyfriend. Betrayal is the main painful element interior the worldwide so tell him quickly previously he unearths out from somebody else and issues worsen. No comedian tale your tale sound like a romantic action picture : ) existence is in simple terms too short carry on with your coronary heart. the two way each thing would be ok plus your perfect chum(aka romantic love) greater effective have your back . : ) sorry if i do no longer make experience

  • 2 decades ago

    Don't worry and trust in him. If he loves you, he´ll never be a cheater.

    Don´t tell anything to the girls that are being cheating on.

    a) You don't have evidences.

    b) You´ll hurt the girls.

    c) You´ll be betraying the confidence of your boyfriend.

    d) Maybe the girls already knows the situation and

    wants to keep hers eyes closed.

    e) A marriage is about TWO people, don't be the third one.

  • 2 decades ago

    i wouldnt really get involved with someone else's relationship that can backfire on u BIG TIME...and ur bf might just be commenting on it to u cuz he thinks its wrong ...there are guys out there that dont do that and hopefully u have one of the good ones

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  • 2 decades ago

    He may not be cheating, but I can tell you, that he is definitely thinking about it. It is not about cheating it is about feeling you get from having something new.

  • 2 decades ago

    Chances are if he's talking about it, he's trying to give you the hint...I know from experience...move on and save yourself an even bigger heartache in the future...

    There's always that saying..."Let something go...if it comes back to you it's yours forever, if it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with"...or something close to that.

    Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    ohh gosh that is a tricky one...if u trust ur bf then u shouldnt worri..does he hang out with his friends alot?? u should give a little hint to those girls.. or tell ur bf to say something as well..

  • 2 decades ago

    if he has the guts enough to tell you that his friends cheat then he trusts that he has an open relationship and can talk to you about anything...hes proud hes not cheatin on you.....stop bein paranoid that will run him off

  • 2 decades ago

    this is a hard one to tell you... i dont think your b/f is cheating on you..but you never know ..if you tell you risk your relationship if you dont know you conscious bother you..i would aks you b/f why is he teling me these things..tell him that the more he tells you it bother you even though it is not you that is getting cheated on it just hurts you to much..

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Classic, you're getting worked, that's hillarious, go to the clinic and get a check up!

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