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Am I unfair to kick my man out of bed when he snores?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Well, yes and no...lol.

    He needs to realize that the snoring is interfering with your rest, and get help for it if possible. There are lots of treatments to try.

    You, though, are kinda being mean to wake the man up and send him to another room.

    My suggestion is to SLEEP in separate rooms for the time being. It takes the pressure off, and you both get to sleep all night long--you, because his snoring wont wake you, and him because you won't be waking him up to send him elsewhere. Then, after he gets the medical treatment necessary for his snoring problem, then go back to sleeping in the same room.

    Remember, I wrote sleep in separate rooms--you can still do other bedroom stuff in the same bedroom together, you know. Then, when all the cuddly stuff is over, just go to your own private quiet space to sleep. Nothing wrong with that.

  • 2 decades ago

    No, I don't think so. My husband snores too and though it didn't used to bother me as long as I fell asleep first, it bothered me a lot once my baby was born. I was up at all times of the night while my husband sleeps, so it meant I couldn't get to sleep. He started wearing breathe right strips, and it works! Anyway, he recently got diagnosed with sleep apnea and have to wear a breathing machine...so he doesn't actually snore anymore.

    But, snoring can cause problems. I mean, how do you go to sleep when your partner is preventing you. And once you are tired all the time, things get heated at home because you're a little crazy from lack of sleep. So, it's not unfair for you and your man to sleep apart. But like I said, try the breathe right strips. You can get it an any pharmacy.

  • 2 decades ago

    NO, That is exactly what I do when my husband snores. But what we do is fall asleep together and when he starts snoring he goes to the couch, then in the morning when I wake up I take my blanket to the couch and cozy up with him for a while. That way I dont get interupted by his snoring and we still get to cuddle.

  • 2 decades ago

    yes, it is unfair, it could be that he has no control, over his snoring, you should look into a solution instead of kicking him out of bed

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    yes. He'd most likely kick you out if you snored.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Does he kick you out of bed when you don't put out? Well then you shouldn't kick him out for snoring.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    It isn't fair. He cannot help it and he might have SLEEP APNEA - this is a potentially deadly sleep disorder. I have this myself and it is SCARY. The sleeper cannot breathe properly while sleeping and so they snore, sometimes choking or gasping for air. He may want to try a sleep center at the hospital for testing. I nearly DIED when I stopped breathing in my sleep - my heart rate shot up to 230 beats per minute! (70-90 is NORMAL!) Almost died of heart failure in the ER. So please, be kind, and try earplugs. Talk to his MD.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Actually, he is being unfair to you. He should see to his snoring problem.

  • 2 decades ago

    if i snored i would kick my self out of bed

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Life's full unfairness looking at your picture an not knowing you is unfair. Answer's is no.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I usually AM that strange man that does the snoring.

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