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I NEED AN ADVICE, please help.........................?

I started going out with this boy on february 14, 2004 and the same day that we hook up, i left him. we broke up since we went to a party and we were dancing, but while we were dancing, he was checking out other girl dancing. I left him without telling him the reason why. And today, he appears like nothing happen, i guess he didnt know the reason why i left him and now he wants to work things out with me. What should i do.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    You should of giving an explanation or tell him your feelings to him and from that point make your decision. but, oh well.... be friends with him..

  • 2 decades ago

    Men like a straighforward answer. If he is a player and you tell him the reason you dumped him, he will know you are not fool. If he is not, he will say "I am sorry" or maybe he was not really checking out the other girl. If you show you know your business and you do not let things happen, you will get an honest answer. Ultimately, he will see he can not play with you!

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    How do you feel about it?, obviously your hurt enough to leave him but deep down how do you feel, whatever the answer is you should go by that only, if he's the type of person to check out other gils while he's dancing with you, then that in itself if pathetic.

    Write back if this helped at all,

    LOL

    Ashley

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Tell him why you broke up with him last time. And explain to him that you didn't like how he looked at other girls while you with him. Maybe he wasn't ready to settle down with anyone two years ago. He might be have matured since then and genuinely doesn't know what the problem was>

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  • 2 decades ago

    Don't go back to him. If he has roaming eyes then don't talk to him. Guys like him cheat and don't care about how you feel. You did the right thing about leaving him there.I

    bet he felt stupid. He knows why you left. He's just putting

    on that innocent look. But he's guilty. You just need to

    move on and be happy.

  • 2 decades ago

    You need to be honest with him. You need to start by telling him why you left and how he made you feel when you noticed him checking out other girls. He may not even be aware that was checking out other girls, sometimes boys do things like this and are not aware that they are. They are not aware that they are even being insensitive unless someone brings it to their attention. But you do owe it to him to be honest, it sounds like he is clueless, and listen to his answers with an open heart. If his answers seem to be sincere, then take his word for it. Then make your decision.

  • 2 decades ago

    2 yrs is long, and if you still feel something for him today, then you might give yourself a 2nd chance...

    what happened in the past, is in the past.

    Just look forward and use the time together to make the most out of it!

    If it turns out bad, he really piss u off, then leave him without regrets!

  • 2 decades ago

    hello! unless you can gouge out the eyes of all men on this planet, guys will never stop looking. You need to deal with your own jealousy issues before you can seriously date. There is a difference btw cheating and harmlessly looking.

  • 2 decades ago

    well, u shudnt have been toooo jealous-y... u shud probably tell him straight up that u dont feel comfortable with that... but come on....its been what? how many months? 3! and he still hasnt noticed..my oh my...well just tell him if he asks u if anythings wrong....but giv him signals...tell him u wanna talk..im no good at this thing called "love" but do what ur heart tells u...

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    stop being childish! he LOOKED at another woman, what are you getting mad about? ALl men do it, and they have been doing it forever.. they arent hurting anyone.."look but dont touch" have you ever heard that? i feel sorry for the guy. i would tell him the truth and tell him how childish and selfish you acted and that he dosent deserve you..

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