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What is best for my daughter?
1) stay where we are, no friends to speak of but easy living or
2) move to friends area kids have ADD but friends for me and her but possible of rough going till all is straightened out.
My friend's kids have the ADD, my daughter is not happy with that idea..she is very calm and gentle
We are socially boycotted here..it's a very backwoods clickish place and if you don't belong you are out! That means your kids too. The ppl we are friends with have such socio economic and personal problems..I just want something better for my daughter. This other place is in OK and it would mean everything new...but I would have a old friend for support and eventhough her kids are wild..I mean wild..they would still be friends for my daughter to start out and break the ice with..maybe through them she could grow and make other friends but my daughter is so scared. She wants to stay here cause it's what we know. The house I live in needs so much cosmetic work I don't know if I can afford to do it all. I will be getting about $4,000 soon so i have to know what to do. thanks for your help.
17 Answers
- Anonymous2 decades ago
Number 1 - Why no friends? Did you just move there? Why will there NEVER be friends?
Number 2 - Doesn't sound like an option, sounds like a pathology.
Find a third option, or at least one to replace Number 2 if you don't like Number 1.
[ADDED] Well, given the clarification you added in the detail, you would be selfish to move back to put your daughter with people she doesn't want to be with.
- A.S.I. - 7Lv 42 decades ago
What seems to be the problem in your current area? Why don't you have friends there?
If you are being socially boycotted (God forbid), then it would be good for both you and your daughter to move to this place. How so ever rough it may be initially, a person has to have his social needs satisfied!
Source(s): My Mind! - return1969Lv 42 decades ago
Why not try to make friends in the area that you are currently in ? Sounds like a better solution than uprooting & having the possibly of rough going.
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- 2 decades ago
I could tell you what i think would be best from which sounds better but the only person that really knows thins is yur daughter. Sit down and talk to your daughter. Find out what she wants and where she will be happier. You never know you may find out something valuable.
Good luck!
- 2 decades ago
It depends. It sounds like your daughter is an only child so I'd choose 2), but it's very close. I'd aldo ask what she'd want. Telling her the benefits of both options.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
so if ur daugther doesn't like that your friends kids have add, maybe you want to stay where you are or even find somewhere together with your daughter where you two make a new beginning...
- Anonymous2 decades ago
No God, Know Problem
Know God, No Problem
The law was given by Moses,
but grace and truth came by JC.
He taketh away the first,
that he might establish the second
The "grace" of our Lord JC with you all. Amen.
Source(s): Holy Bible - darcidazeLv 52 decades ago
depending if you mean moving her because she is also add to make friends, and more help. but if its easy living where you are stick together and in time she will get friends
