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What would you choose?
If you had to choose between a constant, loving relationship with someone of similar interests & intellect or a on-again/off-again relationship with someone you do not have much in common with but the greatest sex you have ever had?
Keep in mind that it would be a life long choice.
Please state your age when replying. Thank you!
This is a hypothetical question only. I am only curious on what your personal choice would be & how age determines your choices.
Good for all of you that would appreciate a constant, loving relationship with someone of like interests. But as there could only be one "best answers", I chose the one that best corresponded with my own beliefs.
For the rest of you, I feel sorry for you & hope that you learn to grow emotionally, mentally, & spiritually.
Thanks for your input, everyone.
Also, good for you karsenc_02. It is nice to know someone still shares that belief.
I did wait until I married---at the age of twenty-two!
29 Answers
- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
well id choose the 1st because if you love someone that much ,the best sex youll have is with that person
- 2 decades ago
32. only you can make that decision. you ultimately have to live with the consequences of your choice. try to look at things objectively. yes being in love with someone who has similar interest and intellect is a great thing...but if sex is something that is important to you maybe being with someone who has similar interests and intellect may not be right for you. as to being in an on again/off again relationship with great sex...well that's just not healthy. it chips at you emotionally and doesn't really allow you to find the person that's right for you. you shouldn't choose either one. you should really think about what is important to you and leave yourself open and receptive to find just that. good luck!
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- rosecityladyLv 52 decades ago
I'd choose the constant, loving relationship hands down! Sex is important, but as you get older it loses it's passion and if you don't share other interests then you'll be left with a boring relationship.
Source(s): Age 55, in that loving relationship I'm referring to...! - 2 decades ago
A constant loving relationship! Sex is between your ears, not your legs. Sex drives change (and sometimes daily)..Keep in mind that if you are in a truly loving relationship, the sex will be awesome no matter what..
- Anonymous2 decades ago
The first choice. You can teach and learn how to have great sex.
26, married to the woman who is everything you described in the first choice, and we still have the greatest sex we've ever had, and we've had a lot of partners.
- Felicia FoxLv 62 decades ago
The 1st choice--a constant, loving relationship with someone who has similar interests and intellect...Thirty-three.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
in the interim sex is good, great sex is even better. however when it really boils down the crux of the matter is whether or not youre hapy with this person and the relationship. if you connect to someone on evry possible level there is then go for because you can also teach them how to please you in bed. and not be afraid of hurting thier feelings because you can approach them on every level.
- RubyLv 42 decades ago
You could make the sex great with the one you loved, but you might not love the other one (and vice versa) and thats not a good feeling. I'm 25.