Seriously, why are women called whores for doing exactly what guys do & want?

There are two sides to the answer to your question.

The guy says it because he wants to avoid responsibility. The girl doesn't have a choice. No woman ever sat in the delivery room wondering who the mother was. I've known a few men who were in the delivery room, hoping that the blood type came back A+ instead of B.

As for the rest of society, a man is expected to be experienced in love because he is held responsible for his partners pleasure. If it's not good in bed, then HE isn't good in bed, not THEY aren't good in bed. I've heard from a number of women that inexperienced guys are the worst in bed, so for a man, being inexperienced is actually a bad thing. It actually hurts his ability to please his lover.

On the other hand, the woman isn't "getting better" with every new lover. She isn't improving or learning anything that will make it better for the next lover. He's going to have a grand old time even if she's a virgin. However, there is the danger that she's going to be with a sex god.

Take for a possibly silly example a story. A woman goes out into the world, and has a number of affairs. One of them ends up being a sex god, leaving her quivering for hours after even the briefest encounter, but normally keeping her occupied for whole days at a time. Unfortunately, he turns out to also be abusive in his every day life, so she leaves. Then she meets a man who provides for her, but has waited. Because she is his first, he is absolutely terrible in bed. He hasn't a clue where anything goes, and finishes before she's even started. He feels bad because he can't please her, and she's miserable because she remembers what good sex was like. They work together, and finally, he gets up to the same level of sexual experience as the former sex god, but now she's used to him... now it's ho-hum just because she has been with him forever (not to mention she's the one who taught him all his tricks.)

Consider the reverse example. The man goes out into the world, he has a number of affairs, and learns to be a sex god. He masters the art of seduction and the science of pleasure. Once he's completed his training, he sets out to find the perfect bride. She ends up being a virgin. (Not because he was looking for it, but just by happenstance.) They wait until their wedding night, because her mother wishes it so. They go away to a beach, where she spends the next week screaming in pleasure, and never in her life has a bad sexual experience except the one time four years later after their first child is born and he hasn't had any in six months, which he promptly corrects due to realizing how badly he screwed up.

I'm not saying it's fair, I'm just saying men and women are different.

Because of the influence of the evil christian church on society where most of the negative attiudes to women and sex come from.

You don't get attitudes like that from pagan/wicken/witch cultures

Ie look up the term 'magdelen laundries' or the film 'magdelen sisters'

sh*t i no

that really bothers me. my friend had the same problem

cause their women and were men