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Why is is that the better you treat a woman the more they S*** on you?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Hi,

    because she knows you will stay and put up with it. She is only using you and doesn't care if she hurts you. If you don't get a woman that is only using you she won't treat you like s***. She will want to treat you with love and respect as you treat her. This woman doesn't respect you because of how you two got together.

    Maybe its because you rely too much on looks when choosing the woman and need to look more at her as a person.Choose a respectable woman and you will get respect in return.

    From what I know that is my opinion.

  • 2 decades ago

    Some of them are C U N T S and they like to be treated like crap. Haven't you seen on TV when a woman is physically abused, cheated on, and made to feel insignificant, they still love the man that did that to them? I think that most women have low self-esteem and need to be validated, so even if you treat her like crap, she will still be with you if you on occassion tell her that you love her. So if I were you, I'd treat them all like crap, until you find the one that won't take it, then I believe you'd have found your life mate. Good Luck.

  • 2 decades ago

    Perhaps your dating the wrong type of women. Even women get dumped on by guys as well. Find out what it is that makes you so attractive to these types of women. If you don't want to be used by them; then try dating women (as in date women who act like ladies) who will appreciate a man who does treat them well.

  • 2 decades ago

    First of all it sounds like you are seeing the wrong women. I don't think being nice to a woman makes then treat you bad, I think it is just in their nature to do that. But please don't give up, keep looking for your soul mate.

    Good luck

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Sounds like you need to find one that respects you and wants to treat you the way you treat her.They are out there, just gotta look.

  • 2 decades ago

    Thanks for the answer to my question on the Mororcycle (SUNBEAM)the picture is great! Now as to your question--- Often times we attract people that can sense our weakness. They feel they can manipulate, once feelings get involved. I sense you probably give too much trust without having the time taken to earn trust. Friendship like a fine wine should get better with time. No time, no trust, no investment!(smile!)

    Source(s): I am a woman and I know people!
  • 2 decades ago

    i personally dont have that problem....and if your treating this women great....doing all things a man should be doing .....and she still is treating you like s***.....i say leave her...get a women that will respect you...and be appreciative of your efforts to make her happy.

  • 2 decades ago

    if you're doing everything for her its no longer a challenge for her and its no longer exciting. she doesnt think of u as an equal cuz you're acting really needy of her attention so she feels that she is better than you. so the moral of the story...dont be needy, dont be her slave, and dont give her gifts in hopes of attention. be your own man and she'll be more attracted to u for that.

  • 2 decades ago

    Such is life with a woman...it is in their make-up! It is their life's ambition to make a man's life miserable! Thank God they do not do that all the time...only when it can benefit themselves! It is their prerogative!

    Source(s): Been putting up with it ALL my life!!! I just Thank God that I found one that only does that once in a while! Most of the time she appreciates me!
  • 2 decades ago

    That is not true..you just meet woman that you allow to sh#@ on you..when you find the right woman she won't do that...

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