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Why do men committ adultery?

Men get bored by the lack of sex and the constant compalining. So they look for attention and sex with other people, how do you ladies feel about this and what would you do to remedy your relationship, so it doesn't happen or happen again.

Update:

I talk to my wife and we communicate. I tell her when she is complaining too much and she tells me that also. So we complain less. She doesn't want to have sex all of the time, and some times gives in, some times not.

Do I go out and cheat, no.

I do wants she wants and some times she doesn't pay attention to the old phrase "Becasreful what you wish for"

I tell her if she really wants something done, then tell me what she will do for me, like take a shower together.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    Men & Women committ adultery because they have no self control and are selfish. They cheat because they can and their partners do not give them the proper consequences when their cheating ways are found out.

  • 2 decades ago

    I think that men should not get married if they are going to committ adultery b/c they have a problem communicating.

    Sex isnt everything in a marriage, it helps but To live and laugh and love and spend time with your children, and one another is nice to.

    The remedy is being open and sincere and giving instead of focussing on your needs always. It goes both ways!!

  • 2 decades ago

    Because they can. It seems to me that you have already answered your own question.

    Webster's definition of adultery is "voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married women and someone other than her husband."

    I think alot of people get married much too young and without enough forethought as to just how much and how long of a commitment a marriage is. I also think most people go into a marriage with the best intentions and simply become disillusioned when the the romance wears off and everyday reality sets in.

    And as far as "men get bored by the lack if sex and the constant complaining" well let's just say you never met my ex-husband. I really believe this not a gender issue but a lack of real communication between both the man and woman before the marriage vows are taken.

  • 2 decades ago

    Your statement seems to imply that only men commit adultery. This is totally wrong!Both men and women commit the same by taking suitable precautions to ensure that such relationships do not become public. There are a lot of methods, nowadays, to ensure the same. Wherever men and women are there, such things are bound to happen, because of the precise nature of biological instincts.Also, there is a lot of potential(for pleasure), in variety! Man cannot live by bread alone, bread only everyday!!

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    that's against Islam to dedicate adultery or fornication for a guy or lady. finding on the country (whether it adheres to Islam or no longer) it may additionally be against the regulation. There are circumstances of prosecution in Morocco nonetheless they do no longer USE SHARIAH regulation. right here they only require one witness and modern circumstances right here that i'm conscious of regionally this became/is the case. The spouse filed for divorce, introduced a witness to the husbands crime. The husband is now no longer the husband and he's in detention center. it is not any longer continually difficulty-free to prosecute adultery right here in Morocco because it is not any longer flaunted. For that rely single men who do dedicate fornication do no longer share memories on their escapades regardless of their friends. that's a shame do be doing this and extra of a shame to communicate of it. lower back our resident untruthful 'individual' Misviv is misinforming human beings. She/he's an Islamiphobe (possibly between different phobias, undesirable baby). I do have faith she is merely promptly up mendacity yet i think that's skill that she is merely thoroughly ignorant to the data. The undesirable lady is complicated rules of a few international locations the place Muslims happen to stay with the guidelines of Islam. those are 2 various issues. No usa follows shariah regulation in it is fullest and in common terms one come close to to it (KSA). it is not any longer area of Islam to require 4 witnesses to rape so as to prosecute it nonetheless some international locations could carry on with a regulation like this on their very own. Too undesirable for them yet for somebody to declare it to be a area of Islam is rather uninformed. If we believed that what a rustic whose majority inhabitants became Muslim does became promptly area of Islam then we could could desire to have faith that the policies Turkey has in place to prohibit specific Islamic practices became actually Islamic. we could could desire to have faith that Turkey became a competent, pious usa which it is not any longer.

  • 5 years ago

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  • 2 decades ago

    Men need to take responsibility for their own actions. Blaming women for men's bad behavior is a cop out.

  • 2 decades ago

    I think men and women do it for different reasons and statistics now show that almost as many women do it as men. the ony totally managamous (sp) living creature is the penguin, wants to grow up to be a penguin. :)

    Wonders what her man would do so that she would not cheat?

  • 2 decades ago

    I think it takes two to make a relationship work. If you feel you are being neglected/nagged at you should sit down and talk to your Mrs and explain how you feel. Cheating won't make your problems at home go away.

  • kat
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    this has nothing to do with gender. My brother's fiance cheated on him 6 months before their wedding. She was bored and wanted to see what else was out there. When he left her she wanted him to forget about what she did & get back together. No way!!!

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