Why did I not had any feelings when I met him for the first time?

emotional attraction is different than physical attraction. you probably were just feeling a little akward because it was the first time you could put a face with the words. Maybe you could spend a little time going out as friends, instead of as a couple, until you are more comfortable around him. Then you could reevaluate the situation and proceed from there. Maybe the feelings need a little more time to fully develope.

perhaps you where in shock? perhaps he didnt look the way you wanted and felt a little wierd? or perhaps the ferimons where not right? maybe you just need more time... feel it out and if it still doesnt feel right than end it as soon as possible so feelings will not be as hurt if you let it go on too long.

u might have just been scared and in shock that u r finally meeting them. do u have feelings now??