Married for 2 years, husband accuses me all the time of cheating?

Any kids involved? If not then I would move on. Sounds like he doesn't want to help himself and you are putting up with abuse.

If you want to do something for him call his doctor from work and tell him what you told us. Ask him what you can do to get your hubby help. Maybe he will have some good advice. PTSD can be helped but it takes time and the sufferer has to want to get better.

Maybe if he learns he might lose you if he doesnt work on it he will try harder.

Sounds as though you have a relationship that has dissolved into domestic violence. I empathize with his PTSD but it is his responsibility to address this issue in an appropriate manner (drugs and manipulation are not the answer). You may consider going to a shelter and separating for a time in order to drive the point home that he needs to get real about getting help. Sounds like you may need a safe place to go and be supported.

He needs counseling...and a lot of it. He obviously has major trust issues, which could be an effect of PTSD or possibly he's cheating on you? A lot of times people feel guilty for doing things like that (as they should) and turn it around and accuse the other person. Good luck!

I think the fact that he doesn't take his meds like he should and that he is home while you are working is definitely not helping the situation. Maybe some type of counseling where you both can share how you feel? Maybe he can get involved in volunteering, something that will keep him occupied aside from being home alone?

He is insecure. And his insecurities will break your marriage. Counseling could be your only chance. If he doesn't agree, go by yourself. Money should be no problem as the military have this kind of help. If he doesn't want to be help( and he is the one who needs help) you'll have to consider all your options. Did you talked with your parents about your problem? It will be wonderful if you have their support.

He SLAPPED you??? Now, that was enough for me! Why are you still there? You should not put up with abuse! He is abusing you, both verbally and physically......you deserve NEITHER! You need to leave him, get counseling for the abuse, and move on with your life. Good Luck!

The reason he is accusing you ...joking or not. He has either done it in the past or he has thought about it. He seriously needs help.

Get counselling immediately! If he doesn't want to, you need to cut him loose. It's not worth your going through hell for a man who obviously feels too sorry for himself to want to get better.

He needs to be alone with his thoughts. He seriously has problems. I do think he needs counseling and you need a divorce

poor bugger, he's still not over it.

he can trust only his "combat buddies"

either you just tolerate it

or you take a year or two off

go and live with your family until your man regains his senses.