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dragolt asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 2 decades ago

Leaving an elevator when a woman gets in?

Is it true that if you are a man alone in an elevator (in the US), and a woman gets in on a different floor, you're advised to leave the elevator even though you are not at your destination?

The risk of being sued for sexual harrassment would be too high (This is a piece of advice, given by americans as part of a cultural training in Germany)

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Nope, never did that myself. Just keep your paws to yourself if you're that worried.

    I mean come on give me a break, she could have just as easily waited for another elevator.

  • 2 decades ago

    Good Heavens, where do they find these people that they send into foreign countries to train others?

    I have lived and worked in America for over 25 years and never has a lone man exited the elevator when I entered it, nor have I ever experienced any sort of sexual harassment during any elevator ride.

    It is my guess, that these trainers are giving these instructions, solely because America as a whole has become such a litigation happy place where people will sue one another over anything.

  • 2 decades ago

    As long as you don't bother, or sexually harrass the woman who's getting into the elevator, I don't see why you should have to leave when you're not at your floor! Some people think American women are these bad people who will sue you over anything - but the truth is, American women are just sick of being harrassed! If men could learn to keep "it" to themselves, women wouldn't have to sue for sexual harassment!;

  • 2 decades ago

    I've never heard of that. I'm also sure the elevators in most buildings have security cameras, so there would be tape showing no harassment took place.

    However, this is a strange new world, and anyone concerned can simply get off the elevator and resume their trip later.

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  • 2 decades ago

    This is interesting. Not a lot of men do this. The only time that I seen this was in HS when one my male teachers would get off the elevator when a female (teacher or student) would get on.

  • JeNe
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    2 decades ago

    I don't think so... never had a man stepped off when I've gotten on and we where both alone...neither has a man tried anything I would consider sexual harrassing either.

  • ...
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    No, you don't have to exit. If she claims sexual harrassment, just remember she has to prove it. Also, in most elevators now in the US, they have cameras. I think you're okay.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    That's retarded! Sounds like propaganda to me. The only elevator etiquette you need to follow is to stand to one side instead of at the back. That way, if a women gets on, she can stand on the opposite side facing you rather than being forced to turn her back on you.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    if a woman gets on an elevator by herself, i'm sure she can take care of herself, you don't need to be a security monitor

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    That sounds ridiculous, is it just given to the Germans?

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