Does his bank account size really matter???

At some point it may when financial things are at hand but overall it shouldn't matter about that. If you base your relationship on that then you are a materialistic person and it could end up back firing on you!

actually no. But I did have a nice house, and I would prefer he had some money. If he has an education which is very very important, he should be. I don't expect doctors or lawyers(no time for you which matters to me) or CEO's or something but I do expect an education(no dropouts) a little college maybe too. Um yeah, it is the USA, u kinda need money. But I don't expect millionaires or anything. What they said. If they can pick a decent job, maybe a job they like. Then it's fine. Money doesn't buy love. I agree, he should have a job. Does it matter truly? No.

there is only one item that size matters more than bank account, if you get my drift. Those are the 1-2 punch. If you usually have 1 of them, the other doesnt matter as much, If you have neither, prepare to live in a singlewide and drink beer out of a can.

It depends.

If he is an artist, a musician, a student, a teacher, and devoted to his career even if he earns little money, most women respect that.

If he earns money and blows it, that makes him seem irresponsible or immature.

If he doesn't work at all, or barely works, then THAT is what makes him seem like a loser.

Yes, it does...But do not, i repeat do not, tell anyone that rudely or even nicely asks.."what's in your bank account?" i mean it is none of anyone's business....just say.."why would you want to know...that's personal!" then just walk away...that's what I've had to do when people ask way too personal of questions.

it shouldnt...unless you are in a situation of buying a house or a place or something significant like that..in which case she is probably just wondering to make sure you can afford it but she should be paying too if possible

it should not matter but why would you be with a lowlife with no career or future that if you get married with him hes not going to be able to support you and your not going to have all you want and need. so yes it is important.

A big wad of money does a lot for confidence.

No it doesn't as i have my own money i don't need a man to keep me, anyway as the old saying goes MONEY CANT BUY LOVE

Can't really say What would it have to do with me? He may be a tight wad.