Thugs and Badasses or Sweet, gentlemen?

Question

I myself am having a debate whether I should stay with the thuged-out boyfriend I have. Who is always fussing about other bullsh** but then doesn't talk. And we don't know whether theirs love there or not, but we run back to each other all the time. But then theirs my ex. It was a good relationship, but we aparted because I moved. Then came back. A Jamaican dude that is not at all a "Rude-Boi". Who is sensitive and and wants to be there for me and wants to treat me "Good". I like arguing, and I love the fact that my dude is actually a thug 'cause that's my preference. But he doesn't treat me good or bad. He's just chooses to be there and he treats me like I'm just there. Pays no attention but when it comes to that time to get "down and dirty" he wants to be all passionately, but in a rough way of course. Now the Jamaican is sweet and sensitive and he actually wants to be with a ghetto chick like me. Don't know why. I like both these dudes, but it ain't right. What should I do to, pick?

Update:

If you read my other one about giving advice. I still don't have a question I need but I do need one for mine. Real answers. Also, is it me, or is it the season for all these things to be happening? Espcially with relationships similiar to mine.

baby_4th_unknown · Accepted Answer

let me tell ya ive been wit a thug and a sweet man and now im married to that sweet man and got 4 kids **** u aint gonna get anywhere wit a thug man besides headaces and a broken heart wit kids **** its up to u tho 
ps im from cali and i know what a real thug is and ill never go back

Anonymous · Answer

well  you gotta do  what  makes you  happy ...  every man  fusses  ...obviously your attracted to  the  thugs so im  not  really sure why ur even  asking but sense  u  did   lol  my sister  decided to marry a thug   they have  a lil  girl  4 years  old  and  her daddy  is  in  prison  on a 10 year sentance.. I   chose  the  so  called sensitive guy  but the badass in him showed thru  just  after  marriage..he's a real   jerk  but he takes care  of  his responsabilities .. I guess thats a chance we all  gotta  take .. if you  love  your thugboy thats cool ..hopefully  your  one of the  lucky  ones and you wont find him 6 feet under  or  locked up ...

Mrs. M · Answer

You must not have a very high opinion of yourself otherwise you wouldn't be asking if you should stay  with the lowlife.....If you like being treated rough and then ignored then the lowlife is for you ..you would make a great pair...but it is only going to get worse..He knows you like sex rough and its just a matter of time b4 he starts slapping you around ....The other guy he sounds like the better of the two.....You have to make up your own mind !!!!!

flirtragious · Answer

honestly who can you see your future with more the "thug' or the "gentleman"  would you prefer to be treated like a lady or do you prefer to be treated like ***** is it more of a sexual relationship would the thug guy ?it's better to be treated nicely than to be treated like **** so you asked and i say stick with the guy who can treat you better.

truthteller · Answer

stick with the scum , don't bring the good dude down, he deserves better.....

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Thugs and Badasses or Sweet, gentlemen?

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