Why do people ask their b/f g/f if they've cheated?

Girl, noway will they tell that they cheating. Then act like nothing is wrong. I know from experience. :D

Because when people ask that question there are 2 things...1. they think they can tell if their mate is lying to them.. or 2. they think if they ask in person and the person answers, then they can believe them because they want to, but it also puts red flags in their mates head like dang, they know what i'm up to if i'm doing something...you know?

I get what you are saying, but this is why people are doing it.

I think it's because we want to think we are secure in the relationship. but, if we feel we need to ask, then we probably are picking up a bad vibe anyway...listen to your heart folks...peace of mind and security come from your soul, so be aware of your own behavior in relationships. We wouldn't want to be the perpetrator in all these love games....

Probably for the same reason you used to ask. I used to ask til it hit me too, now I look for signs. There are always signs. I would like to add that you should trust the person that you are with. If you trust them...you should not have to ask.

Deal with your old relationship/insecurity baggage and you won't need to ask anymore. You will learn how to attract the type of mate that you want. Peace.

because they want to know..under pressure..a lot of people will end up telling the truth about any cheating

B/c they feel insecure about that person, especially if they know how they are. they feel like they can't trust them. they feel threatened by other females or dudes and they think someone is gonna take their mate from them.

its just maybe because, they feel that they are being cheated or simply because they're just insecure about themselves or they lack of confidence that they can keep their b/f or g/f no matter what or maybe because theres no enought trust at all

'Cause they've been cheating themselves and wanna make sure their partner isn't suspicious.

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