Ok, Ive had enough with this trust b/s and have to say something.?

totally get you... cut the leash shorter!!! yeah!

WOW OK,

I Truest Everyone To A Degree,

But ~ All It Takes Is One Time Its Broken,

That Is It, ~ Truest Is Gone In That Person,

And A Wall Goes Up.

And Far As Me,

Just Because Others May Have Done Me Wrong,

Isn't A Good Enough Reason For Me To Stop Trusting Others.

Truest Has Gotten Me,Far in Life,

It Stopped Me From Making Wrong Decisions.

Truest Has Kept Me From Making Wrong Decisions.

I Never Loose Trust,Its A Part Of Me,

Stay Open Minded,

Until They Broken That Truest.

~*~*~*~*~*~*~ Peace.

What would lead to less divorce is people taking the time to actually get to know one another before jumping into marriage and married people actually working on their problems together instead of running away. When people love and trust they open themselves up to the possibility of being hurt, but I would rather take those chances, rather than keeping myself closed off because that's not living, that's just existing. I truly hope that you find someone that you can trust.

I must of missed your orginal question ..yes someone you trust can do bad things to you... Im only guessing your dealing with feelings that are within you and not him... Sometimes when we have a fear of something we create it...ya know what i mean? If you fear that red cars are following you all around town than you will start to see red cars following you all around town..Work on your own feelings. Or read Dr Phils Relationship rescue book.

I think you need to revisit the bottom line - why would you be with anyone within an intimate relationship - if you arent willing to trust them?

well ul have to other wise u wont end up with anyone