Will you change your self just to be included in the class of ideal people?

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We are always not happy of who we are or so we say we are.  Still we have that idel look, character and etc...  Will you chance the total you just to attain the ideal person you want to become?

heaven25star · Accepted Answer

No. I say I'd get plastic surgery, etc. because I'm not happy with myself but if it came right down to it, I don't think I would. Or at least, I wouldn't get as much done as I say I would.

Anonymous · Answer

I really do love who I am and I think that if you have to change yourself to become an ideal person then that ideal person may not be ideal to you. Do you know what I mean? Like, everyone has a different personality and each person is ideal in their own way and if you change that you might be changing your good qualities too.  So I would not change who I am to become what i think is ideal.

kit316 · Answer

There is nothing called 'ideal' .. the world is ever-changing with many different people. Without the different people, there would be no diversity, no difference between anyone. We would all be like robots. It's the different people who complement each other and who make the world function. If we were to become alike, there would be no excitement left.
So NO.. i would never change myself for any kind of acceptance or inclusion. My morals will always live on.

amazingpag · Answer

The ideal is not to become someone else, but the change the ideal into who we are.

johnslat · Answer

By the age of about 4 or 5 (if not sooner), we're all pretty much formed as the individual we're going to be for the rest of our lives.
People can't change who they are - that's the bad news - but they can change their behavior.
An "addictive personality", for example, will remain so throughout his/her life, but, he/she can shed a harmful addiction by changing his/her behavior. AA, NA, GA, Weight-Watchers and all the other organizations prove that by having life-long success stories. Of course, the individual has to want to change his/her behavior and have the will-power to stick to it such behavior changes. But it can and has been done.

bond_adambond · Answer

Never!! I like who and what I am. If others cannot accept me that is not my problem.

clownluv♥ · Answer

no, i like who i am and i shouldnt have to change that just to "fit in" with the ideal group. if they dont like me f**K em' i like me and my friends like me. i dont need their opinion

nini · Answer

no
if I change it would not be me any more
I am the way I am and I learn to live happy with myself :)

we_c_it · Answer

no i spent to much time learning to accept me for who i am,to try and be someone i'm not is just to much work !

IMP · Answer

not for all the cows in india.  Our individuality is what makes us human...our individuality that makes us gods.

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Will you change your self just to be included in the class of ideal people?

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