If you answer your boyfriend's cell phone and you know its a girl but she hangs up when she hears your voice..

Definitely approach him about it. If she's just a friend then she should be woman enough to respond when you answer the phone. I think it is so disrespectful to hang up on someone.

So you didn't hear this person's voice...but you KNOW it was a girl. Did the ring tone give her away?

Do all of you really think having a friend is reason enough for breaking it off with him? If so, that doesn't say very much about how secure you feel in your relationships. Are they that fragile that they can't endure the fact he has a female friend that isn't YOU? Really? So would you would ditch all of YOUR girlfriends just because you started dating a guy? I didn't think so.

You need more information before you make a decision. Were they already friends before you even met him? If they are not romantically involved, why worry? Don't you trust him? If you can't trust him, how could you possibly love him? If he betrays that trust, then yes, break it off...but is he really guilty of that yet?

Shouldn't other people have friends besides you? We don't own anyone! They can and should have other friends besides ourselves! How are us guys supposed to learn about women and why our girlfriends act the way they do, and what are good things to buy for gifts and good ways to say we are sorry? From our guy friends? Hardly! Wouldn't another girl we are friends with be the best person to ask?

Don't accuse him of anything until he is PROVEN guilty! And until then, if you can't trust him, why are you wasting your time in this relationship? Break it off, and find a new boyfriend, who is someone you can TRUST.

I agree with the other response ... Why are you answering his phone? Has he given you the okay to do so?

How often does she call? Was it just once or many times? If once, she could be just a friend. If often, I would suspect something was going on between the two of them.

It could have even been a male caller, but it makes me think it really was a female, because of his reaction to your questioning him.

Do you trust your boyfriend? If not, or if he has given you other reasons to suspect that this caller is more than a friend, dump him. If you don't trust him, why are you with him in the first place? If you do trust him, give him the benefit of the doubt.

Well my best friend is my child's father and he all the time tells me how his girl looks through his phone and the excuses he gives her. The thing is I know he really loves her but he feels like he is being "macho" to keep talking to other females. So 9 times out of 10 he is up to no good with this girl if she has to hang up in your face. If it's not like that with them then she wouldn't have a prob asking to speak to him whether you answer or not. Good Luck.

If he says she's a friend then why haven't you met her? Why is she hanging up when she hears your voice?.... Then again, why are you answering his cell phone?... But, he still shouldn't have girls that you both are not accquainted with calling him and then hanging up when they hear you.

Tough call. But I say find out who she is.. The next time she calls have him answer and take the phone away from his ear and get the 411.

he's cheating, I'd end it. But I wouldn't date a cheat in the first place, but for most females sadly are not like me, and ur kinda stuck w a cheat. Till later. Boyfriend* It is common sense! the calling thing is strange. I agre, most guys cannot be just friends. It's their nature to cheat, over 30% cheat. Okay that's british and married, but look at Jerry Springer? How many females cheat besides him cheating or he's not giving her attention or he's a jackass? Slim to none, okay more like slim maybe but more guys cheat, that I've seen.

She probably didn't recognize your voice and thought you were a misdialed number. Hopefully it wasn't an important business call from this friend. Why are you answering somebody else's phone anyway instead of letting voicemail pick up? I'd call this a privacy issue.

For one, if she's just a friend, why is she not friendly with you? I have some guy friends, and if I call them, and their girlfriends/wives answer the phone, I have no reason to hang up on her, I tell her hello, and ask to speak to whomever I am calling. Hanging up on you is just rude, and would tell me that something is up. If you are questioning her and your boyfriends "friendship" your gut feeling is probably correct.

I would confront my boyfriend about it and find out why this girl is hanging up. If he doesn't know who it is guarantee that he does. Just keep an eye on behaviour changes and mood changes. If you have a good sex relationship keep an eye on that also. That is always a good indication that something is wrong.

B4 answering the fone u knew what u were looking 4. U should have decided by then what u were gon do if u found it.

I wudn't have done it in the first place.

Women should give men their space, and vice versa. Bt i ges it dpends on what u tolerate.

Since you will never accept his answer, try to get the number from the missed calls list and res each who it was. As his who it was in a 'friendly' way, dint accuse him. Yes, it is possible that he is seeing or having a fantasy about someone else. It happens. When you do is your decision