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i'm 14 and I want more with my girlfriend but I dont want to sound perverted or like im using her!?
I'm 14 and my girlfriend is 14 and we have been going out for about 5 months, I love my girlfriend so much, but I want to know how to discus getting more intamate with her, without sounding perverted or like i'm using her! I don't want to say that I want more or can I finger you, becuase we're not ready but i'm not sure what else I could say or do, I just want to know how we can go further?
(She just agreed with going further, but I have no idea how far I should go without ruining my future...)
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You're 14, and feelings can overwhelm you. I can guarantee that the "love" you think you're feeling, while real and intense, isn't the same type of love which lets you build your world around someone. If you "went farther" with her, you would both regret it, and it would probably cause you both to break up. Wait a few years. It will be so much better!
- ?Lv 45 years ago
you do not sound gay, bi, instantly or some thing to me - highly being that your so youthful. Heck, i comprehend plenty (3 excellent off the real off my head) that imagine a similar imagine like you that buys are gross! I wager some boys accessible may imagine females are gross with multiple the stuff that is going on with you're bodies... even though it really is in ordinary words because you all at the instant are not completely advanced both mentally and bodily. so that you *ought to* be lesbian or bi, yet for on the instant, you're merely a probably astounding and nevertheless growing to be 14 365 days previous woman. Cheers!
- 1 decade ago
OK.. okay
we'll fist of all sweetheart your 14 so there's not much MORE you two should be doing besides getting to know one another until you've both reached the age...
if she hasn't brought up you guys getting more intimate you should really hold off because she might not feel real comfortable going that extra step being so young...
get to know her!!
- 1 decade ago
When a relationship starts to get physically intimate, it adds a lot of strain to it, especially at your age. It is best to work on the friendship part of your relationship until you both are old enough to completely understand and accept the consequences that may come with it.
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- 1 decade ago
what gives you the impression that she is ready for this. you are only 14, don't overwhelm what could be an innocent relationship with your girlfriend with adult situations. If you "really love " her than you stop thinking about yourself and consider her for a change.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You're 14, thats a little young. Wait a while
- metronomeLv 51 decade ago
yeah 14's kinda young. you can have those thoughts running through your mind but for the present time don't put those thoughts into action cuz it'll just scare her away. if you truly love her, you'll understand that you gotta take it slow and take your time