Me and my girlfriend are about to break up, please help me!?

Whoa whoa whoa. Inhale...exhale...inhale...exhale. Ok. Here is what you say when breaking up with her. You tell her that you feel she has changed and the relatonship is becoming an unhealthy one, becuase she has become the sole focus of your life. Tell her that a good relationship will never work unless the two of you can be alone and figure things out for yourself. She'll probably be really upset and go crazy for a while. Be as nice as possible, but try to avoid hanging out with her a lot after you break up, because that will send mixed messages. It would be different if you were still into her, but since you said you aren't, it will just make things harder. Oh, and try to keep the drama quiet. The more people who get involved in your guys' stuff, the worse it gets. I can guarantee you this won't be your last break up, so get up the cajones and do it.

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There is no easy way to break somebody's heart (Is that from a song?). There is just no way to. She will get hurt no matter how, especially since you say that you are her everything. But you just have to do it. It's not working out as you say, and prolonging it will not do any good.

Break up with her face to face. Just explain why it's just not working. Be honest, you need to tell her everything. You also need to prepare yourself for her reaction. Whatever it is, just accept it, for she will be very hurt. Let her know that you'll still be a friend, if she will accept it. Tell her either way your offer will stand. After everything, you just go on with your life.

She may hate you and all, but that would be expected. But this is something that she would have to overcome on her own. She would need to learn and accept that some relationships are just not meant to be. At least you were honest and man enough to tell her the truth and end it properly than otherwise. Frankly, it would be the most respectable thing to do.

Look in any relationship you have to try and be yourself and especially to be honest. I know that you are trying not to hurt her but by staying with her may cause bigger problems. I am not saying that she is a stalker but it is how it starts, sometimes men/woman don't take the hints so you have to come clean . I would advise you to be honest with her, you say you are a sensitive guy be one but don't back down. You are the only one that can do this please do it soon before your sensitivity turns to meanness. Even with the sweetest person man or woman it can and will happen and the hurt will be a thousand times worse. Good luck

Sounds like you need to get your head straight. Take some time apart , not foolin around and having fun , but thinking and soul searching . Think what she means to you , will you miss her? Can you see her by your side in the future? If so quit thinking , what might have been and think about what is. i wish you luck

The bestest way it give it to her slowly..aka giving small hints.....all girls all like that...for some hints you could say.."Life goes on...and so do we" then when you think she has all the hints..then break up with her.....if she starts breaking down...you have to be the one to pick her up...you might be the one the broke her heart..but you were the one that had her heart...