What do i speak on my first nite with my new woman?

ON the first night don't go straight for sex. Even though it is an arranged marriage. You are planning to spend the rest of your life with this woman then she is special and her feelings are important to you.

She might be dreading having sex with a stranger even if she is married to him. Develop a relationship first. Sea without know the person that you are having sex with could be bad for your life together. Let your relationship develop.

Tell her that you are interested in her. That you want to wait until you both know each other a little better before having sex.

Share your hopes and dreams and ask her about her hopes and dreams. Tell her what you like about her. Don't speak about sexual body parts. Her hair, her smile, her gentleness. That she is kind and considerate. That you are glad that things turned out this way. Or any such statements that apply.

Be helpful around the house. For most women, that's better than flowers. Your relationship must develop and when the time is right you'll know it. Don't rush it, you have the rest of your lives together and so much is set in the beginning.

Make her fall in love with you before having sex and You will have a wife that is easy to be in love with.

God Bless You In life and in your marriage. ;-)

If you are just getting to know the person. Talk with her like the first date. Sex will eventually be a part of your life, You dont have the same kind of relationship where there is the time to fall in love. Get to know eachother.

Wow, you are one thoughtful person. Let her see that side of you ....Just look at it as if you are meeting someone for the first time but this time round she is not only destined to end up your friend but you best friend for life......your wife! (relax....things will go well for you!)

You should certainly have a long conversation. Come prepared with a nice negligee in her size. Have HER wear it. And then ask her if she is ready and be gentle if she says yes.

Actions speak louder then words.

I've never seen anybody as beautiful as you.....

Ask her to say "Me love you long time!!" & "me sucky sucky"