follow up Married for 5 YEARS. I appreciate everyone's opinion and advice. However, I am not so much on the

honor thy husband, sorry not my cup of tea. I do know that between the last career and the new career they say there are to be some significant changes in the work ethic, but the average is 12 hours a day m-f and whenever needed. As far as marrying young and having a child young, lets see it was one of those common practices of the youth now days. I would never give him an ultimatium, because I do not want that on me, and he says this is what he REALLY wants to do it has been his dream, fine whatever. But his dream and dreams are not mine. I understand about exploring and seeing new things however, when you do it alone for a majority of it, having the good ol' parents around isn't all that bad when I need a time out for me. As weird as it sounds I get knots in my stomach everytime I think about it, I am in the process of getting the house ready to be sold and all that other fun stuff. He is not returning home here, he will be relocating to his new destination in Sept. Thank you!