Break up and move on? Break up and get clousure? Break up and stay depressed?

I don't hook up for one unless I see the heavens part. No that's not a code word for her legs. Unless I feel a real connection beyond physically I'm immune to hooking up. I learned that from my divorce and the best advice I can give move on. In my case we have to interact because we have daughters together. What I could do was realize she wasn't there for me in ways she once was. I didn't call her with my personal stuff and didn't intrude in her personal stuff much as I wanted to and did on a few ocassions. I don't ask her advice and don't offer mine I've moved on. I joined a divorce group that is exclusively males as stupid as it sounds. It can be a good incentive to quit being angry and moving on. I'll repeat the mistake if I sit and wallow in who's to blame. Breakups are depressing they just are. Live learn go on find good music Tim McGraw Angry all the time helped me a few times. For those drunken do something stupid moments and Mark Chestnut I just wanted you to know.

Here we are

What is left of a husband and a wife four good kids

Who have a way of gettin on with their lives

I'm not old but I'm getting a whole lot older every day

It's too late to keep from goin' crazy

I got to get away

The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love

And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough

You ain't the only one who feels like this world left you far behind

I don't know why you gotta be angry all the time

Our boys are strong the spittin image of you when you were young

I hope someday they can see past what you have become

And I remember every time I said I'd never leave

But what I can't live with is memories of the way you used to be

The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love

And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough

You ain't the only one who feels like this world left you far behind

I don't know why you gotta be angry all the time

Twenty years have came and went since I walked out of your door

I never quite made it back to the one I was before

And God it hurts me to think of you

For the light in your eyes was gone

Sometimes I don't know why this old world can't leave well enough alone

The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love

And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough

You ain't the only one Who feels like this world left you far behind

I don't know why you gotta be Angry All The Time

I don't know why you gotta be Angry All The Time

If you love someone there really is no best way. You will feel hurt and and maybe depressed. Maybe happy because you can move on. I have always felt hurt and depressed for a long time after a break up. But that's what happens when you lose someone you love. Time heals the broken heart... Maybe a few days till a few years.

It is normal to feel sadness and a sense of loss after a break-up no matter how appropriate that was to do. Allow yourself to feel that sadness and then move on. You'll always have the good memories of the relationship and you'll learn from the bad to not repeat in future relationships. If you know you keep finding the same kind of person, then you need to figure out why you are continuing to torture yourself and then stop it.

Im not sure what your really asking What I think your intending to ask is how do you deal with break ups? or maybe you really mean how do you break up...At any rate how you break up is you just do it your sick of the situation and you say its over bam its easy. How you should deal with it is the best you can you should never feel bad in life by choice or obligation break ups are part of life it happens even if you loved them with all that you could breaking up happens and you have to relize that or else youll spend your life crying when you could spend that time finding the one you never will break up with.

break up. make yourself happier, so that you make yourself happy and stop ending up depending on someone else to do so. Then you will be able to be happy with you enough o find someone not like what you have been dating. There are some things that are destiny, but this life is about learning and growing in many ways, that is one of them. It will take enough break ups for you to learn not to go with people like this before you find the one not like that.

good luck.

Its always pretty intense (lol Figo . Ricardo. Deco), but u should break up and do what you have to do to get over it and then move on thinking bout it is possibly the worst thing you can do.... good luck

Break up, get closure, mope around a little, then move on.

you break up by saying ur goodbyes and making peace with ur self but you can't do that until you are really ready to let go and move u would do that when ur heart is ready u will know .

Break up, move on. Or Break up, then find someone to mend your broken heart.

break up, stay depressed and moved on.