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It is my days off and some friends of the family come over to hang out and have a few beers with us , he bring

his kids with him and ours are here too. All of the sudden my husband says that he is done and he has to work in the morning. Seeings how I work graveyards and he works days we have two different shifts. So our friend (yeah its a guy) says that he would like to have another beer with me and hubby sayd OK see ya in the morning. Mind you we have at least 4 kids outside with us, and friend and I are sitting acres apart, just shooting the s h i t having the rest of a beer. Then about an hour later my hubby opens the door and says " ARE YOU EVER COMING IN!?!?!?" so friend exits quickly thinking he p i s s e d friend off, kids are upset. Was I wrong to hang with the family friend and not go inright away? I usually work from midnight to eight am and hubby works from seven am till 4 pm. Friend is a fairly heavy fella and his wife works graveyards too only til about 2 or 3 am. I just amtired of being the last one to bed and the first one up!!!!! TEll me was I wrong?

Update:

Ran out of words! The 4 of us are good friends, and yeah my hubby and I have issues but I really thought that we were working them out! I can be friends with anyone, is that a bad thing? I have lots of questions hid in here so if you can decifere them I would appreciate it!!!!!

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  • lily
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    I don't think your husband handled it very diplomatically by essentially having a temper tantrum in front of company and children.

    If he had an issue, he should have brought it up privately. And it sounds like he is being petty and jealous.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he wanted you in the bedroom all to him self you S E X!!! But hey what ever have another beer with the 'Friend' flip the table around he stays out with a woman to drink and lose inhibitions with while you go inside... I know how jealous woman get like angry cats that fume and hiss.

    Why do you assume it was bad maybe he wanted your attention all to his own. Could he not have been a jackass-YES, but what fun would that be.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • zether
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    not really wrong, he didn't give you any kind of hint that he wanted you to come to bed with him, maybe inconsiderate slightly, but not wrong

    cherish the time you have with loved ones, because if you spend no time with them then you will have no love

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  • 1 decade ago

    hes just over reacting.

    he probably loves u a lot and doesn't want to loose u.

  • 1 decade ago

    no, your hubby was acting rude and possessive and selfish and insecure

  • 1 decade ago

    Probably he is dead tired so he loses his temper?

  • 1 decade ago

    He's not respecting your relaxation time.

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